Personal Stores Archive #24

Stories from December 1, 2004 to December 31, 2004
Date:
December 31, 2004

Story

I am a 18 year old female. My cyst first came in October of 2003 and I had it drained after being in extreme pain and finally realizing what it was that just suddenly "appeared" near my tailbone. It came back on the second day of my spring break in Mexico. Of course, there was nothing I could do but take the pain. It bursted open within a week, from where my scar was from getting it drained, after getting my luggage back home. I spend ten minutes in the airport bathroom letting the nasty puss drain out of my bottom. The next few weeks I spent time soaking in the bathtub with Epsom salt and warm water. It came back for the third time again in October, but I went to the Dr. right when I felt it coming back. He gave me antibiotics, it didn't get any bigger and went away on its own. I am going in to get it surgically removed on Jan. 3, 2005. I am scared for how long it is going to take to get me back on my feet again, and the ability to at least sit through classes. I thought it was weird that they are doing the surgery when the cyst is not even inflamed. I hope they dont have to dig too deep to find it!? I will let you know how the surgery goes! Good luck to everyone going through this...just do what you have to do, once the pressure is gone, you feel much better!! I would say that if it comes once, it will come again, so make that appointment to get it removed so you dont have to keep experiece such pain! Feel free to email me, Spunky4686@aol.com


Date:
December 31, 2004

Story

Hello fellow pc sufferers. I developed this for the first time 10 yrs ago, got it lanced and recovered within 2 wks. A month ago it recurred with a vengeance.I had surgery, under general anaesthetic three weeks ago to drain away the infection. At the moment the 7.5cm wound is being dressed and packed daily, I don't know how much longer this will go on but it is a pain in the you know where-literally!! Thanks to this website for giving me information the doctors didn't. Hopefully will be having excision in the New Year sometime and never have to go through this PAIN again! Good luck to everyone suffering,take the painkillers if given!!!


Date:
December 29, 2004

Story

I am a 30 year old female dealing with a second pilonidal cyst. Yay!!! For those debating the surgery, I highly recommend it. I had my first cyst removed by a general surgeon, and it wasn't a bad procedure at all. I had a local anethestic and some lovely tranquilizers, and my recovery was surprisingly quick. I was walking around in just a few days and, despite having to clean and pack the wound daily, was pretty much back to normal in a week. I was blissfully cyst-free for several years, but a new one has recently started to flare about and inch or so lower than the first. I experience a moderate flare-up about once a month, which I believe might be hormonally induced. I plan to have a second surgery in the near future...and hope this is the last one. I've also been afflicted with cystic acne (treated with accutane) and cysts on my thighs and underarms. Apparently, I am prone to this sort of thing. Lucky me! ~sister cystic


Date:
December 28, 2004

Story

Hello...Im a 21 year old female living with a PC for almost 7 years. It first came up after I took a spill down the stairs. I thought I had just bruised the tailbone and was a little suprpised when I noticed that it bled. Eventually the pain and the bleeding went away and I thought I was fine...WRONG. I had another flare up about 4 years later that landed me in the hospital with a raging infection. I had recently fallen down some stairs (again) and the doctors in the ER misdiagnosed my condition as a broken tailbone. (go figure) Finally my gyno diagnosed it as a pilonidal cyst and said that if i ever had another flare up I would prob have to have it removed. From reading the stories here Im a little apprehensive about having the cyst excised, but I realize that it might be my only option as I recently have had another flare up. Even though Im a little nervous about surgery i realize that 8 weeks of discomfort is nothing compared to the pilonidal hell I've been through the past couple of years. Thanks for this great website--it has the best info I've found anywhere.


Date:
December 28, 2004

Story

hello, i'm from england and am currently living in japan. when i was in england i noticed a lump in the cleft and so went to the doctor, she took a look and called it,'an infection under the skin, quite common, nothing to worry about' and sent me on my way. i had no idea what it was and she gave little to no clue to inform me. it's now been about four years, i occasionally get flair ups, when i do i use 'QUINIDERM' a strong acne cream to calm it (obviously check with doctor, i haven't but it seems to work for me). anyway i've finally decided to go and see the doctor tomoorrow, i also praying that the doctor is up to date on this. this site has helped me, i could've done with a bit more direction on what it might look like after the operation if i choose one...... cheers everybody.


Date:
December 25, 2004

Story

Hello. I just found out today that I have Pilonidal Cysts, and had one drained in the ER in UVa medical center. (what a fun way to spend Christmas, haha) For all you out there nervous about the surgery, having it drained isn't so bad. The numbing part of it is definitely the worst, and you feel so much better afterwords that you don't really care. Only thing is it is still quite sore and tender so you have to be careful for awhile, but some 500mg ibuprofen helps a lot. I'm going to have to have the cyst excised sometime in the futre like many others here, which does make me a bit nervous from the sound of the surgery. I am very glad to know that i'm not the only one living with this. I felt so embarassed at first but knowing it is fairly common is reassuring. Have a happy holiday season all, and God bless!!!


Date:
December 25, 2004

Story

I had a pilonidal cyst when I was 18-didn't know what it was at first-found out, did the whole sitz bath thing, and it went away. Recently, due to a more sitting-down job, and more working out at the gym, it flared up. I've dealt with it so far-went to the doctor and he said if I wanted it lanced I could get it (I'm in the military, so it's free) but I didn't want to deal with that, so I basically take two sitz baths a day, and I use the Melaluca Company Zap-It acne treatment system. Sounds weird, but it works on healing and making the cyst leak out and heal like the cup of Christ healed Indiana Jones father in The Last Crusade-to use an analogy. I read about someone using it in another site. Pretty much all it is, now that I have it, is a type of facial wash with tea-tree oil and then just some kind of astringent. So I've been using that, doing the baths, and taking it easy. Hopefully it will be gone completely soon. This site was definitely helpful though. Good luck to everyone, and it's good to know I'm not the only one with this rather embarassing plague!


Date:
December 23, 2004

Story

Do not be afraid!!!!!!!!!! I am 39 years old, and I have been living with my Pilonidal Abscess for many years and recently it continued to flare. I had it lanced at least once a year since 2001. It would always come back and become more painful. The injection of the pain killer to numb the area was more painful than the abscess itself. I had to have two back to back surgeries, one to lance and relieve the pain and swelling and one a few weeks later to remove the abscess. My incision was 8cm by 3.0cm. The abscess was 5.5cm by 2.5cm. The operation itself was painless. I was give Versid to help me forget the operation and a lower spinal to numb my body from the waist down. After surgery (which took only 20 minutes) I felt relieved and the pain that followed was minimal. The scary part was looking into the mirror and seeing an incision that was quite big. I took it one day at a time and had homecare nursing change the dressing twice a day and irrigate it with saline. It has been 3 weeks and I have healed to 6cm by 2.4cm. I also consuled with a certified wound care specialist and she said the wound would take time to heal but that it was healing just fine. I am off my antibiotics and have not taken any pain meds since the second week after the operation. Please take Vitamin C and Zinc to help speed up the healing. Also, take some protein shake (20mg) each day twice a day. Also in between take two protein bars 15mg each twice a day. This will also help speed up the process of healing. I am one to be chicken of any needles or surgery for anything. However, knock on wood, I am recovering fine and hope this helps others!!!


Date:
December 23, 2004

Story

I am soooo happy to know that my butt and I are not alone. I just had my cyst drained and packed yesterday and have to go back in two weeks to discuss options of excizing it. The information I found in this website has been very helpful and has esed my mind considerably (especially knowing that I can be put under for the excision). Having the cyst drained was extremely uncomfortable. The most painful thing was administering the local anasthesia (I don't think they gave me enough because I still felt some pain). Although this wasn't the best experience of my life, it is a necessary evil to avoid having to deal with walking and sitting like I have a stick up my but. I will let you know how the excision goes. PILONIDALS UNITE!!!! :)


Date:
December 23, 2004

Story

My name is Alisha, I'm 17 and I recently found out (3 days ago to be exact) that I had a Pilonidal cyst. When found out I thought I was the only 1 to have somthing like this. I couldnt sit down, walk or anything. Today I was just at the doctors, I had it drained and packed. I have to go back Friday however so I i figured i might as well look for some more information on whats wrong with me. I had no idea it was a disease. This same area has hurt in the past but only for like a day or two, never this long. All in all I'm glad i found this site. I now know im not the only 1...:-)


Date:
December 21, 2004

Story

Hi everyone, I have my consultation for my Pilonidal Cyst tomorrow and I am VERY scared to find out how I'm going to have to treat my cyst. My father had one years ago and he had it cut out, so I'm assuming that I will have the same type of surgery. After reading all of these stories, I am finding myself to be a nervous reck! I fear that I will be out of commission for a while. I just hope that my consultation goes well tomorrow and that all I will need is for it to be drained. I've already had 3 cysts in my wrists, one drained and two surgeries so I think I can truck through this! If anyone has any hopefull advice, please let me know. Thank you.


Date:
December 20, 2004

Story

My fifteen yr old daughter has been diagnosed just in the last 2 days w/ this pilonidal cyst. She goes day after tomorrow for surgery to the local Children's Hospital for the excision & healing by secondary intention. I am so afraid of what this sweet young woman will endure here at Christmas time and the weeks to come. She is very self conscious as to the amt (alot) of body hair she has and almost daily we talk about waxing, bleaching, or shaving various parts. Now she has hair coming out of her backside and she is mortified!!!! I ache for her. Her story began about three wks ago when she began to have some discomfort in the natal area but didn't mention it as she "thought it would go away". Finally, Sat. night after her shower she looked w/ a mirror and noticed two holes. I saw the holes and blood and noticed an odor. After contacting the pediatrician on call (rx for antibiotic)& the hot bath (last night)which allowed the pores to open up, I noticed there were actually four holes. The top one bled, the next one down had something inside. Using tweezers I attempted to remove "whatever that stuff was" (@ that point not knowing anything about a pilonidal cyst other than the words themselves)& low and behold two inch long hairs by the clumps. Needless to say, I called the pediatricians office today for a visit and before we knew it they were referring us to the Childrens Medical Center. Later in the day we had preop for day after tomorrow and tonight I am on line learning more than I wanted to ever know about what is ahead for my child. I am hoping that what I have found online is much more graphic and long term than what she will have to endure. I also hope that her pediatric surgeon is up to date on all the literature regarding the postop care of wounds like this. Pray for us. Yeah, that's kinda funny. Pray for my daughter's butt...but I mean it...please pray...and for her sense of self throughout all of this.


Date:
December 20, 2004

Story

I had a pilonidal sinus abcess! i went to hospital on 14th november 2004 which was five weeks yesterday and the wound is still not healed yet! i had to get a sick note for 8 weeks and the district nurses say it mite be longer! it was the most painful thing i have ever had. i still cant sit on my bottom either! it is so painful i feel sorry for everyone who gets them cos i now no how it feels!


Date:
December 19, 2004

Story

Hey everyone, My name is luc, my Pilonidal ordeal has been going on for a while now, the first time i went to a doctor to have things checked out was back in March 2004 we are now Dec 2004 and my scheduled date of surgery is Jan 11 2005, I am really nervous about it and dont really know what to expect. I have read good and bad stories, i hope all goes well....


Date:
December 19, 2004

Story

Hi everyone. I am a 21 year old male. I relized I had a pilonidal cyst last May. I went in and had the surgery done and it was left open to heal. I have been back to the doctors to have Silver Nitrate put on it. It has healed most of the way but has stopped. It is still draining. I am now going in again, in January to get the surgery redone. Not looking forward to it. Hopefully it will heal this time.


Date:
December 18, 2004

Story

Hi everyone. I'm a 30 year old female who just had her first experience with the Pilonidal Cyst. I had it lanced 3 weeks ago and have been getting the packing changed every morning since then. I actually thought I had a pinched nerve in my back first because that's something that flares up occasionally. But the usual remedies for that didn't work and I was just about to make an appointment with the chiropracter when I found the "bump". I knew immediately it was a cyst, but hoped it would go away on it's own. This was on Tuesday. Wednesday the pain was unbearable and I looked up "Tailbone Cysts" on the Internet and discovered Pilonidal Cysts and realized I had to get to the doctor. I made two trips to the hospital and chickened out in the parking lot. By Friday, the pain was beyond unbearable. I left work around 7pm and headed to to the ER. They called in the Surgeon who confirmed it was a Pilonidal Cyst, a very infected cyst, and lanced and drained it. Although freezing the cyst was the most painful thing I've ever felt, when it was over, I felt so much better...all the pressure pain was gone. I spent the weekend lying on my stomach because there was still some pain, but I am so relieved to have it treated. Now, as I said, I've just had 3 weeks of daily packing changes, and I'm guessing I've still got another month of it at least. I'm scared to death it will come back, and from what I've been hearing from the nurses and reading on the 'net, it's going to recur. But next time I'll head to the hospital as soon as I notice it. The wick has fallen out a couple of times, and I'm afraid the surface wound is starting to heal over too quickly...the abcess is still quite deep. I imagine I'm eventually going to end up having surgery to get the cyst excised, which scares the bejeezus out of me. But at least I feel like I'm not alone with this...it seems to be more common than I would have ever guessed. At least I got one bit of good news out of the whole experience...I haven't got a hairy butt!!! Just a sinus hole below the tailbone. Thanks for this site! The stories have helped me, so I'm posting my story hoping someone else will get the same kind of comfort. Best of luck to you and hang in there.


Date:
December 17, 2004

Story

Hello. My name is Patrice. I had the Pilonidal cyst in April of 2004. I was having pain sitting down and walking. I thought nothing of it until I told my mom who had the same problem a year earlier. I immediately thought that she had given me something that was contagious. But it turn out, the pilonidal cyst is not contagious. I went to the ER that same day and the doctor drained the cyst. After that, I was fine. I was a little afraid because my mother had to get surgery and I saw all of the pain that she was in. She had to go to the doctor regularly and also had to pack the area that was operated on with gauze. It was the WORST!! I prayed to God that my cyst was not that bad and it wasn't. The doctor drained it and sent me on my merry way. However, here it is December 17, 2004 and I have been having a little pain again for a couple of days. I looked a my "behind" to see if anything was there, but I could not find anything. I sure hope that it is not another pilonidal cyst because I can not bare the pain again. In reading information about the cyst, we can take a warm bath to ease pain and even prevent the cyst from forming. I am going to go home and take a warm bath and I sure hope that that works. I went to sleep last night with a warm wash cloth on my "behind", which did not help, but I sure hope the warm bath helps.


Date:
December 16, 2004

Story

A few months ago i wrote a story in here about my life and pilonidal and in November I finally had it cut out! I was very nervous about the operation, i never have had to go into hospital for anything, They're not my favourite place. It was a long day and all i wanted to do was eat! Finally I was in, and Woke up feeling fantastic!! the op itself took only 40 mins, then i just wanted to go home. On the way home we picked up fish and chips!!! The scar is about 5 cm long stitched. I was told that i wasn't going to have the open wound method done because mine isn't in the tailbone area, it is on my labia, (bikini line!) not the best place. The specialist told me that if we were to do the open wound healing method it would take a long time to heal,cant afford to have so much time off, and summer here(Melbourne)Australia it wouldn't be the best place to have an open wound. awkward place too!. Anyway the next 10 days i sat and did nothing. I went private and all up it's cost me a thousand bucks out of pocket. So i'm getting private health insurance incase this ...... wants to come back. The scar is a little tender but to be expected, it will take a long time for the scar tissue to build up again. It's better than having it there and living with it, it changed my life so much, I never wanted to go out, i was permanately fiting an infection, all up for the past year i was on 9 doses of antibiotics, lost 10kg's, basically not well at all. It's only been just over a month and I feel 1oo%. You dont actually realise how good you feel. so to all the people that suffer from this get it cut out get rid of it, you wont regret it. It's the best thing that i have ever done! the surgery is not scary at all, it's exciting and you dont feel a thing. For all those who get it lanced you are wasting your time, it will come back, get the thing cut out! it's the only way! the stories i have read about it writting that it ios caused by not showering is a load of you know what! I shower twice a day and i am the cleanest person known! almost obsessive! Most of you would know that it is caused by a hair follicle, It really is a case of bad luck. I got mine from a wax and the ingrown hair became pilonidal. The longer you leave it the bigger it will get! do something about it.Thank you and good luck!


Date:
December 15, 2004

Story

Hello Everybody! Hi, Dr. Nick! First of all, I am a guy, and I had a cyst when I was 16, no fun at all, aside from the 3 days off school when i spend most of the day sitting so my butt wouldn't touch the chair, and eating lots of ice cream and milk shakes. Anyway, I had the quick, half hour operation, and unlike most people, went with the route of not getting it stiched and letting it heal on its own. This is a long and painfull way to do it, but it decreases the risk of it coming back by around 10 times. After the surgery, mine was healing fine for the first month, but just suddenly stopped healing and sat there for the second. My doctor kept on telling me to wear the stupid little dressing for another month, and then we'll see what happens. Nothing happened, it was just there, doing nothing and laughing at me. So at the start of the second month, i decided to not take my doctors adivce and actuly STOPPED wearing the dressing, this made it heal a lot quicker and I did the last month's worth of healing in around a week. The bottom line is, this isn't going to be pretty everyone. I wouldn't advise doing the stupid guy thing taking off your dressing for the last stages of healing. Mine may have just been a fluke, but it was a fluke that worked. I would go with the without-stiches route, just becuase i REALLy don't want to go through this again. Have fun everyone, hehe.


Date:
December 15, 2004

Story

I just found this website and I wanted to let all you ladies know that this isn't something that "fat, hairy, truck drivers" get exclusively. I had my cyst removed when I was 15 years old and a high school student. I was tall and thin but I guess "hairy". ha ha It was very painful and had to be removed and now I have an ugly scar "back there". I must have something in my system that causes cysts because I had a large one removed from my back and a tiny one removed from the inside corner of my eye. I used to get very large, painful ones in my underarm areas, but after changing from stick to roll-on deodorants, they are no longer a problem. I hate to hear people think (like I used to) that we get these because we are unclean. I bathe or shower daily and always use antibacterial soaps, but still get cysts. Good luck everyone!


Date:
December 15, 2004

Story

Update on Recovery: I had a primary closure excision of a pilo cyst in early November. I've since gone back to work, and nearly all things normal. The wound itself is healing nicely, save one small gap that has formed in the scar tissue. The doctor says these gaps are normal, and as long as nothing is coming out of it, I should be OK. The wound, to me, is invisible, and I hope the rest of the recovery goes as well as it has been. Thanks again Pilo.org!


Date:
December 14, 2004

Story

THANKS GOD IM NOT ALONE WITH MY "BUTT PROBLEM".25YEARS OLD FEMALE .I HAD CYST OVER 10 YEARS BEFORE I FOUND OUT WHAT IN THE WORLD IS THIS.I HAD PAINS TWICE A YEAR FOR ABOUT 5 DAYS...ONE TIME PAIN DIDNT GO AWAY AND BY END OF SECOND WEEK OF THE PAIN I COULDNT WALK... AND I ENDED UP IN THE ER.THEY DRAINDED MY CYST...IT WAS SOOOO PAINFULL..LIKE I SAID TO MY HUSBAND -NEXT TIME JUST LET ME DIE....IN 2 YEARS PAIN CAME BACK.AND I DECIDED TO GET RID OF IT FOR GOOD.I HAD A SURGERY AND WAS ON AFTER CARE FOR ABOUT A MONTH.NOW I HAVE 2 UGLY SCARS ON MY BUTT,BUTT AT LEAST A WHOLE YEAR WITHOUT "PAIN IN TEH BUTT".GOOD LUCK EVERYONE AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL.


Date:
December 14, 2004

Story

Hi, I am a 25 year old female from the UK. I first noticed a problem when I was 19, I developed acute pain at the very top of the cleft of my bum which got worse. It took a few visits to the GP for them to find out it was an infected abcess, and they gave me antibiotics and painkillers and it was gone after a week. No problems for 2 years and then the same thing happened again, more antibiotics and it went away. No problems for 3 years then it came back. Antibiotics didn't work so I was refered to the hospital where it was diagnosed as a Pilonidal Abcess. It was lanced and drained under general anesthetic and I was sent home the day after. District nurses came to see me every day for 3 weeks to clean the wound, pack it with Sorbsom ribbon and cover with a dressing. In November this year, it came back again so I had to wait until the pain was unbearable until the surgeon at the hospital would see me. This time they lanced it under local, the experience and pain was awful, I actually went into shock after the procedure! It has been 4 weeks now and I am still having the wound packed every day! I have had a follow up consultation toady with the surgeon and they are going to do an op to remove the sinuses and pits sometime next year. I found this website today and it has lifted a massive weight off my shoulders. I no longer feel alone or like a freak because I have a disease which one nurse told me only "fat, hairy, male truck drivers get!" I have also been paranoid that I have got this infection because I'm not clean enough, but I shower at least once a day, I'm not hairy and I'm not overweight. The surgeon said the infections were likely caused by one of the long hairs on my head falling down the back of my knickers and getting lodged there! Maybe I should become a skin head!!


Date:
December 13, 2004

Story

#8 year old male again. I realized that I made a mistake in my first story. 5 years ago, my cyst was lanced and not excised. After reading more carefully through the website, I realized that I used the wrong term to describe my procedure. Sounds like having it removed is the better way to go if it keeps causing a problem. Again, thanks for any advice or input. Scot


Date:
December 13, 2004

Story

Hi, I am a 38 year old male, who is very greatful for finding this site. thanks for all the helpful information! My first and only major flare up, was about 5 or 6 years ago. My pilonidal sinus became infected. I had some pain down there, which developed into major pain, a fever, and an overll ill feeling. I had it excised, and left open and packed to heal from the inside out wiht no stitches. The excision and the extreme tenderness of the sinus caused such pain, I thought I would faint. I normall have a fair tolerance for pain, but this was nothing like a I felt before. I cried like a baby after the excision, I couldn't help it. I was so sore and shaken that I embarassingly had to call my wife in to the office to help me get my pants on!What an experience, and I had such limited or almost no knowledge at that tiem,a nd it happened so fast! I have probably had pilonidal condition for many years - a small lump and minor discomfort every so often since my late teens, but never paid too much attention to it, since it would go away. I also have been fairly active, and have fallen on my butt a few times, so I attributed to a slight tail bone injury. Besides being a white male, and young I think :-), I am not hairy and have always been very thin. I don't sit much, but have been sitting more with a new job I started. I have been jogging regularly, but have not been running consistently for over 3 months now. Thanks to this website, I have another reason to watch my posture, and have recieved a lot of helpful information. Question: I have started minor pain and a small lump agian two days ago. It doesn't seem to be getting progressivly worse like last time. I am trying the more conservative approaches,as recommmended - washing, posture. should I see a doctor before it gets woorse or try to treat it with warm compresses. I would appreciate any input! Thanks!


Date:
December 12, 2004

Story

Hello--- At this point I think my story is luckily not of the horror variety, so thought I'd try to cheer up this page. I'm a 30 year old male. I am a skinny guy, which I think is why I noticed pretty easily what is a pretty small pilonidal cyst where a heavier person wouldn't notice it until it got much bigger. Noticed a lump next to the tailbone about 3 years ago, which caused no pain but some discomfort. I'd say the lump was about the size of a medium sized grape. So I was advised to go to a colorectal surgeon, who was not quite sure whether pilonidal disease was the problem or not. I guess this is because the cyst had not broken the surface, but I now find it hard to believe there was any question as I do have a fairly prominent sinus, which I've had since birth, am pretty hairy, and do a lot of sitting for my job. Also I tend to slouch down, putting pressure right where that sinus is--great way to make the cyst worse, I now know. Anyway he removed the "maybe cyst, maybe something else" a few weeks later and stitched it up. Easy surgery, almost invisible scar, no pain at all after about a week. Somehow after surgery and lab tests on what was removed he concluded it was not a pilonidal cyst, but tissue resulting from inflamation from possibly an old injury or something of that nature. BUT as soon as I was healed enough to feel I could safely poke around back there and feel what was going on, there was again a noticeable lump. The condition did not get worse, and for the next two years just had a painless lump that I decided I would have for life and not be too concerned with. The new lump was smaller than the old one, and caused no pain--I could feel it if I prodded around but not when sitting, lying on my back etc. THE RECURRENCE-- I was traveling in Europe last month, and after a 9 hour train ride my little friend made a resurgence. The classic surface cyst appeared, looking like a half-submerged blueberry. While not acutely painful, I was constantly conscious aware of the cyst and could feel discomfort when lying on my back, walking, and of course sitting. I was quite upset, thinking open-wound surgery was in my immediate future. Luckily found this web site and began following the "conservative care" advice, just lots of washing and several hot compresses per day. Well it's been about 3 weeks and the thing seems to be much better. The mass under the skin has shrunk to as small as it's been in years and the surface skin seems to be scabbing and healing--my hope is it will return to how it was and I can avoid surgery. I only wish I'd found this site sooner--If I'd known how obviously my condition is pilonidal disease I would have been doing hot compresses daily all along, done more careful cleaning of the lower back, and been very careful not to slouch on my pilonidal sinus for hours at a time! Pretty frustrated with the conventional medical opinion, i.e. "I'm a surgeon, so what you need is surgery," without much consultation/advice/thought about other possible ways to take care of this condition and take care of it to avoid more flare-ups. Also I'm convinced that if the first surgery had removed my pilonidal sinus as wel as the cyst, it wouldn't recur. I've still got the sinus so am still at risk. My own opinion is that the pilonidal sinus is the #1 risk factor for pilonidal disease--lots of sitting, being hairy, or being overweight can help bring the problem about, but having the sinus is what enables the cyst to come into existence. Good luck everybody! Michael


Date:
December 11, 2004

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Kia ora!,I am glad to hear most have recovered from what is a very painful and frightening experience.At first you think it could be cancer,an s.t.d,anything! and it's in such a personal place,it's awful. I am a 22 year old female living in Auckland,New Zealand and have pilonidal disease for a year and a half now.It tends to flare up around my period,times of stress,and when I wear tight clothing and g-strings,the g's are just outta the question,it's cotton granny's for me all the time!.So I get a flare up of around once a month if unlucky,once every two months if lucky. The healthcare sucks in New Zealand,all this pain and discomfort,my mother(she's a nurse,thankgod!) will lance it for me when it's just so bad I can't sit,lie..you know the story,but my doctor,we've done the antibiotic thing,the swabs etc,etc.It's so bad, this thing effects my sex life,I'm just too self-concious of it,for someone to ask me "what that lump is there",I would feel nasty explaining the facts,and what if it popped during sex with my latest beloved,how awful!. I just want it gone,I explained the sex thing to my doc.so she put me on the public waiting list for surgery,but a month later I got a letter booting me off the waiting list,private healthcare is sooo expensive in new zealand,now what? I am 22,very out-going,love the lads.I work full time in a bar but am thinking of quitting the night jobs soon because to come home to an empty house late at night is very lonely,and I am lonely,all because of this thing on my butt so it's effecting me mentally and physically. C'est la vie!


Date:
December 09, 2004

Story

Hi everyone. Today is December 10th and I just had my first lancing a few days ago. The local was the most painful shot I have ever had in my life, which has made me really nervous for surgery. I am having a lot of bleeding and drainage. Tomorrow will be the first time I remove the packing from my wound, and I am very nervous... I have to go to have excision surgery in about four to six weeks and I am very very very nervous about the healing process and surgery itself. I am hoping they will at least put me out this time...I hope that all of you are doing well, if anyone would like to write me with some advice that would be really great.Like I said, I'm very nervous about removing this packing and having the excision surgery in the next month or so. My e mail is morethenmel@hotmail.com, any advice would be great. Good luck to all of you and have a great holiday!


Date:
December 08, 2004

Story

I'm a 38 yr old male. I notice my cyst in 2002. Unlike many of the stories I've read here, my cyst was not painful at all. I had a growing dimple or "sac" of fluid at the top of my natal cleft. On a long 11 hour flight, in March of 2002, my cyst started to drain. It was uncomfortable, disconserting, and a little embarrassing. I considered going to doctor after I returned home, but the draining stopped so I decided I was OK. This cycle continued for the next two years. Finally, in an attempt to research what was going on, after a long term of the draining phase, I stumbled onto this website. This site has been extremely helpful. After meeting with my PCP, I was insistent that I be referred to a Colo-Rectal Surgeon. My excision was performed at the Cleveland Clinic on Monday, Dec. 6th. I am happy to say I have had no pain at all from the surgery (knock on wood), after 2 days post op. I'm being cautious about what activities I should be resuming, because since I am not in any pain the temptation is to resume work and recreation activities immediately. I'm going to give it a full week before I start to add any regular activites, to promote the healing.


Date:
December 08, 2004

Story

Hi. I felt I had to write. I didn't realise what a lucky escape I had after seeing this site. I'm an averagly hairy bloke living in the UK. I had a pilonidal excison about 6 years ago. My Dad's a GP so I asked him about this strange spot on my arse that wasn't going away. He didn't look at it but said is was probably a pilonidal sinus. So I want to my GP and said I had a pilonidal sinus. He didn't look at it either - just took my Dad's word for it... And so within a month I was at the local hospital having it removed. (It was a pilonidal sinus - my Dad's nonvisiual diagnosis was correct - not that I recommend this as a normal way of doing things). As I caught it reasonably early it wasn't very big, so the surgeon just cut it out then stitched up the wound. Job done. I was back at work in a week. Looking at the pictures of some other poor souls' arses I can't believe what a lucky escape I had. No open wounds, no packing required, no lengthy recovery time. My heart goes out to you who weren't a lucky as me... -bill-


Date:
December 08, 2004

Story

Hi, I am a 19 year old female who totally thought she was alone with this problem. I do consider myself a generally hairy person so this wonderful news of getting something that was more common in hairy men was yet another blow to my already low self esteem. I waited too long to get it checked out and after i had it drained i was visited by a home nurse everynite for about a month for packing and cleaning. I was in high school and very involved in school and it was one of the biggest bummers that I would have to be home really early every nite to meet the nurse. I missed many meetings and other important things. To anyone embarrased about this esp the chicks honestly the pain just GETS WORSE... and really its not GONNA GO AWAY no matter how much u hope it will. Just bite the bullet and get to a doctor sooner than later.... as for me.. i continue to struggle but its nice to know that theres others out there !!!!


Date:
December 05, 2004

Story

Hi' I am a 26 yr. old female (who also does not have a hairy butt). When I was 14 yrs. old. I fell down a flight of stairs, my mom and I thought that I broke my tailbone. Two weeks later my mom finally brought me to the doctor because I couldn't take the pain anymore. That's when the Dr. told us that I had a pilonidal cyst and she had to lance it. A few years later it came back after I gave birth to my first child and I had to have it lanced again. Well, this past October I was sitting on the floor and as I went to stand up I felt that pain in my tailbone! Again, it became swollen and infected and I had it lanced for the third time. This time I went to a surgeon and told him that I wanted to have the surgery. Personally, I think that the pain from an infected pilonidal cyst is much worse than giving birth (and I have three times). Anyways, I had the surgery on November 23rd and because I waited about a month and a half after having it lanced (it was healed and not infected) the surgeon was able to do a excision with closure. I was put under a general and the surgery was a hour long. My incision is about six inches long and stiched closed. I had a pressure packing that was stiched over the incision and was removed one week after surgery. Fortunately I haven't had any problems, nine days after surgery I was back to driving my kids to and from school. Next week the rest of my stiches will be removed. The pain from having this surgery is nothing compared to the pain that I experienced from having an infected cyst. Best wishes to anyone out there dealing with this.


Date:
December 03, 2004

Story

My wife, 30, has just undergone her 3rd procedure for her pilonidal condition. We live in the UK. 1. The first was on September 11, 2001 - aged 27. It had been growing for a number of days and, like many people, she had no idea what it was until the pain was so excruciating, we had to get an emergency appointment at our doctor. A few days reviously, he had prescribed a course of antibiotics and painkillers, but to no avail. They were doing nothing. While the news broke about the twin towers, he withdrew a very large amount via a syringe, on his examination table (with minimal anaesthetic I might add, and much screaming) and this "solved" the problem for 3 years. Within a few days, all was fine. 2. Fast-forward to this year - March 13th 2004. After no ill effects since the 1st procedure whatsoever, the cyst suddenly became VERY aggressive, growing from the centre of the cleft and spreading towards the right. It was bad, but manageable with painkillers and antibiotics.. for about 2 days. By Wednesday 17th March, the pain was so intense, she was on the point of passing out, and an emergency appointment was made - in total agony, she was rushed into the Royal Berkshire that night to have it removed. She went into theatre at midnight, and it was taken out under general anaesthetic. The wound was left open, only about 1cm in length, but about 1 inch deep, and it was supposed to heal from the inside out, being repacked everyday for 6 months to keep it open. This we did religiously, until the end of August 04, when it healed, with an almost imperceptible 1cm scar. Very pleased. 3. The reason I am writing this, and not my wife, is because she is back in hospital tonight (3rd December 2004), undergoing emergency surgery again. On Tuesday, it came back with a vengeance. She took super-strength painkillers and antibiotics from Wednesday onwards, but too late - they may as well be maltesers. This time it is VERY aggressive, and she had to be admitted tonight. She has just emerged from theatre (its 01:23am Sat 4 Dec) and is very woozy. Still in pain, and still in hospital. She was under for 1 hour. The doctor had said that it was not a pilonidal problem as such this time, but more a case of reinfection of the scar from the last op. Still, the whole of today was very distressing for both of us. We're in the process of emigrating to Canada at the moment, and we have medical examinations booked in 2 days time (HA!) We are still thinking of keeping the appointment as we still believe that the condition is more of an annoyance than anything - not a life-altering thing, despite the story above, and a medical practitioner will see it as such too. On the other hand, if she is too ill to move for the next week or so (as it seemed when I saw her come out of theatre just now), we'll have to postpone... Another point... The second flare-up was when we were trying to sell our house and it kept falling through. The third flare-up, tonight - we are on our final hurdle for emigration. I firmly believe that STRESS is a MAJOR factor. Sigh. A long night. Best of luck everyone. Chris Stewart-Smith


Date:
December 02, 2004

Story

I can relate to the second lastest story advertised on this message board. I got the first pc when I was about 18 years old. I went to the emergency room and was treated like a half-human teenage girl with an std! The doctors made me lay on what felt like a board for almost 3 hours(can you feel the pain)! After my pap smear came back and all of my blood test defied the statistical thinking of the doctor I did not have any of their forseen diagnosis. I stayed in the hopsital for two weeks and lost a ton of weight. They did not do surgery but gave me IV antibiotics. One day when my mother was bathing me it burst and I was finally able to go home. The doctors still did not identify it as a pc. About three years later after the birth of my daughter another one came back. I was admitted to another hospital and once again I was treated like a little girl adicted to drugs because the pain was so severe the medication was not touching it. I stayed in the hospital again for 2-3 weeks. This thing came back almost thirteen times before I was then refered to a surgen who took me through the colonoscopy routine and created a drain. This seemed to work but the darn thing came back when I was pregnant with my next child. I was rushed to the ER because the pain was so intense (another surgeon tried to open the drain)imagine that pain....mor victous than the contractions it erupted. For almost six years this thing was quiet until recently. I am in excrutiating pain but I am trying to deal. I do not feel up to going to someone's ER and having all the interns in the world look at my butt, however to go to my new Dr. would be just as bad. The problem with mine is that it is not visible or on the surface at all. The first time that a doctor actually found the exact location was a encologist who had me lay in the most ackward postion ever. The surgeon that performed that surgery said it was the size of a grapefruit.... I have a pretty high threshold for pain and the fact that I am a mother of four (recently seperated), I have to try to at least make it another week to get Christmas shopping done. In and out surgery never works for me I always wind up staying a while. I don't have a fever yet and I have to drive with my left cheek in the air but I can stand this pain for at least four or five more days. It is a little different this time because it comes and goes. I would not wish this on my worst enemy or my soon to be ex---this crap HURTS! Tameca


Date:
December 01, 2004

Story

Hi I'm a 27 year old female, and I too have had to deal with the agony of the "cyst from hell". My Mom, and grandmother have both had it, now I guess it's my turn. Why couldn't I have inherited something else? I was 23 when I started to feel the pain and pressure. I went to the Dr's and they said that I had broken my tailbone and it was just soar and sent me home with vicodin. After a couple weeks of pain and more visits to the ER they finally drained it the whole experience was painful embarrassing and extemely GROSS. I got it again last Christmas and really thought I was gonna go insane! Last week I was in a lot of pain again and I knew what was coming. This time it burst on its own. Thanks to my Mom she's been helping me clean and dress it {thank God for Moms}! I'm now debating on whether or not to have the sugery. I was so happy when I came across this web site and read stories of women like me going through this. It's a great comfort to know you're not alone.

 
 
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