Personal Stores Archive #37

Stories from May 1, 2007 to June 30, 2007

Date: June 30, 2007

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Here is my story....it was around 2003 when I started to notice a small red bump on my back, that soon followed with pain. I ignored it for awhile until the spot got bigger, I went to a walk in clinic and was immediately told it was a pilonidal cyst, they drained it there and sent me to a follow up the next day with a surgeon, sure enough I had to have it cut open and have tissue removed, my wound was left open and had to have a vacume pump attached to me, to drain it daily, on top of that I had to have a nurse come to my house daily for new bandages and cleaning, and couldn't work because the pain was nearly unbearable, once a week I had to go to a wound clinic for observations and measurements of the area, the outside was healing but the inside began to tunnel all the way to the bone, so I had to go back in for another surgery, I was only 20 yrs old at the time and I am a female, who they say hardly ever get's these, I am a clean freak and a germ aphob and couldn't understand this. I had to put up with not working, the bandages, pain and daily visits from a nurse for over 7 months, and now I am finally healed.

Fast forward 4 years later, the absess is gone but still get a piercing pain from time to time, and fear it will come back. Not only did I have to fight this pain, but at the end of the healing process I had to get help for pain medication addiction, it went from one embarassment to another, the doctors prescribed me 40mg of oxycontin to take 3 times a day, at the time I never new what it was and what it could do to a person, when I first started taking it I would get really sick, but the doctors said my body just had to get use to it, 8 months later my body was use to it, and then had to stop cold turkey, I had the shakes and vomiting for weeks, my parents wanted to sue the doctors, but at the end of the day, I should have seen how it had overcome me. So if any of your are currently going into surgery or are post op, just prepare yourself for these are problems that can follow, I never thought something like a cyst would cause me to go into withdrawls over a med that was supposed to help me.don't let the pain releivers control you. Get help- sincerly, once a pain in the butt......


Date: June 28, 2007

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Hi!I'm 20 years old and self-diagnosed pilonidal cyst 2 weeks ago.I should consult a surgeon in a few days.My current problem is that I'm a FTM transsexual person and I should start testosterone therapy soon (injections) and change my body from female to male. Even now,  before therapy I have facial and body hair and with testosterone they'll become more dense..hope that it won't worsen wound healing after cystectomy.I had removal of ovarian cysts with complications 2 years ago...the worst period of my life. I'm so glad I found this site and read other people's experiences. Now I'm calmer as I know what to expect.All the best!Andre


Date: June 27, 2007

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Well, I had my pilonidal cyst surgery about 7 weeks ago. Luckily they were able to sew the wound together. The first week or so was horrible and then it got better. Unfortunately, it stopped getting better. The draining never subsided, and aparently the wound never healed. Now im the lucky patient who gets to go back and have the surgery a second time in one summer. but this time, i get to have the wound left open. Im 19 years old. Im a college student. Im stuck in one hell of a perdicament. Unfortunately, i dont have an option but to have the second surgery, but if i could go back - i would definately have left it alone. (I know its no fun to have, but it certainly beats the unknown outcome of surgery) The recouperation on these suckers is grueling. Good luck to anyone suffering from a pilonidal cyst.


Date: June 26, 2007

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Hi everyone, I'm now 23, and my first pilonidal prob appeared when I was 12. It never drains on its own, I've only developped tiny visible sinus holes this year, and it seems to bug me a lot in the summer time (may it be increased humidity and/or activity). I'm horrified about biking, though I used to enjoy it a lot. I'm a pianist, so I tend to bounce around on a bench which doesn't help either... and my day job requires a lot of sitting. I've gotten a really really bad flare up around the age of 18, got it lanced and drained... but I've never had the surgery. It still comes back and forth, and when not visible, there's a constant tenderness inside at the tailbone... My mom had it as well and had surgery in her late teens - early 20s, and she never got a bad flare up since, only tenderness with menstral cycle up to menapause. I'm very discouraged this summer, and surgery isn't an option until it flares up bad enough again. Until then, I'm playing the antibiotic game, worrying about the eventualities... Very discouraged...


Date: June 25, 2007

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Hi all, I too have had this problem in my 20s and 30s although I did have symptoms in my late teenage years that cleared up temporarily with antibiotics. Mine was real bad and infected when I faced going to the Doctor (at the time I was not really sure what it was!). I was told to keep it soaked 2x per day in a hot bath and meet with a surgeon. Weeks Later I did have the surgery(1989) and had the open method completed with 2 timer per day bath soaks and gauze changes forever; maybe 5 months? I thought it slowly went away, though any stretching or vigorous activity I could feel drainage. To my dismay, 3 or so years later I had a new surgeon and a re do procedure. The same method and follow up resulted in no problem since that time.(1994). I still avoid hard surfaces to sit, and some activitie that require stretching of that area in a certain way, but have had no further signs of this. Unrelated to this, I have had boils on my face of all places that I have self treated. Iam not sure if a doctor could connect the two. Anyway, I now am a certified health nut and multi-time marathoner in my early 50s, and vigilantly treat my body as a temple. For those of you going through this, I would say to keep positive and treating the open method to me seems more logical than the others and the hot baths seemed at the time to really help things along. My wife still reminds me how she had to apply peroxide 2 times a day on my butt! Ron in Minnesota


Date: June 24, 2007

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I have had 4 long years of fighting with a pilonidal sinus. I was a 43 yr old female and had something above my tailbone that hurt and kept draining so I went to my Dr and she said it was a pilonidal sinus. I figured she would just give me an antibiotic and that would be that. WRONG!!!! I was sent to a general surgeon to have surgery. He cut it out, left it open, packed it and sent me home with instructions to take out the packing the next day and soak in the tub once a day.

Well, it did not heal at all. I went back to the surgeon and he spent the next 2 yrs using silver nitrate to try and get it to heal. It didn't heal at all and one day I felt my backside rip open and guess what - I had another large hole under where the surgery was. I went back to the surgeon and he said he didn't know what it was from but wasn't serious and would just cauterized that with silver nitrate as well. It still didn't heal and I had 2 holes now that were getting more and more sore. I went back to my family Dr and told her that this wasn't working and I needed to see a colon rectal surgeon.  There was a waiting list of 1 yr to get in to see him. I then was referred to a wound clinic. They told me immediatly that the pilonidal sinus was tracking and spreading. There was a third hole starting as well. It was also filled with bacteria. They cleaned it out and then explained to me that it needed to be packed twice a day to get it to heal from the inside out properly.

I used me-salt packing and was put on Cipro for antibiotics for several months and things appeared to be working. It closed but kept opening so still packing and then put on Clindamycin for 6 months. Again, still closing and reopening. Finally I got in to see the colon rectal surgeon and he told me that I needed to shave all the area as the hair gets in it and it and causes it to fester. He even showed me a little ball that he pulled out of the wound. He explained how the movement of the butt cheeks draws hair up to the area and that needed to be stopped. I was also told that the wound had been open for so long that it would not heal and I would have 2 holes for good but I should be able to get them healed better than they were. So I went home and shaved EVERYTHING and kept it shaved. Well guess what - In 6 weeks one hole fully closed and 3 weeks later the 2nd one fully closed. It has been 6 months now and still all is well. I never thought I was going to get this thing healed but so far so good. Good luck to all still doing battle. If I can help or answer any questions my email is lgilland@hotmail.com


Date: June 23, 2007

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I am a 29 yr old female that has been embarrassed about this as long as I can remember. In middle school I noticed my tailbone hurting, and as the yrs went by it never really developed into a cyst but would leak and be gross for a couple of days. Finally in sep 05, it happened. It was THE most painful thing ever and to top it of I was one leave (Im active duty Navy) visiting family and we went to Yosemite,lol, I sucked it up and layed down in the backseat and told noone what was really wrong.I just said my back hurt.And I was doing everything to try and pop it, but it was to painful, I almost took a needle to it, but couldnt, but did hot wet washcloths and baths. While we were all watchin tv it burst and it filled the room with a horrid smell and I started sweating. My aunt asked me if I was ok and said I was. As son as it burst the relief was immediate, and I didn't care that much about being embarrassed.

Well fast forward to May 06, I am about 6 mos pregnant and was having a awful time so far, it appeared again and this time, I said "screw this, I am goin to medical "My OB/GYN sent me up to get it lanced right away. Painful ..YES..worth it..HELL YES. Again the relief was immediate and I was grateful and found out that I wasnt the only one with this THINg, le talone the only women, so that made me feel better. After the lancing, it didnt heal, I know it had to do with me being diabetic when I was pregnant so I didnt worry. Well, my son is 10 mos and it was still around, but drained from teh scar tissue before it gets really bad. I finally opted for surgery and had it the 18 of june 07. And I was really scared because I had a c section and didnt want a spinal again. But it was great, no pain and I stayed overnight, beca eu I live alone.But now is 5day post surgery and it is just now starting to hurt, but 2 vicodin fixed that. I m looking forward to being healed and for this to go away. he said there was a 15 % chance of it coming back, but I will take that odds. I am tired of hiding that part of my body from men or having sex in the dark so he doest see a cyst.Even though I know i isnt a hygiene thing, i still feel like I am dirty because of it, and I hope that will change also, Oh my surgeon is also gettin me appts for laser hair removal (all free!!)and I might be vain, but I just didnt think it was something a pretty girl gets,lol, but they do!


Date: June 23, 2007

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I had a Pilonidal Cystectomy on May 31st. I had the cyst for a very long time. It started off as a bump that turned very sore. It then opened up and popped so to speak. It would fill up and pop about every 2 weeks for a few months. Finally it didn't fill back up. But it was all under the skin then. Years went by and I lived with it. Finally I could not. The drainage and pain became too much.

My surgery was a closed, or stitched up, surgery. But the wound didn't heal all the way and I have an open wound that is healing from the inside out. I am documenting my journey with photos (yes it is embarrassing but I'm still willing to do it for the greater good!).

You can view my healing journey at www.pilonidalcyst.bravehost.com I'm not sure if I'm allowed to post a link here or if there is somewhere else to post it. Thanks for reading! Gracie Six


Date: June 21, 2007

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It was about a year ago that I had my first cyst to appear. I didn't think anything about. I just assumed that I must have bumped my butt up against something hard and just didn't realize it. A couple days went by and the pain got worse. It was inferring with my life. I'm a full-time college student and let me tell you, those seats are not the softest. So I finally went to the doctor. They gave me antibiotics. Luckily, this cyst went away in about a week. I thought it was over but that was all very wrong.

So about 6 months later after my experince with the first cyst, I had another one to appear. But this one vanished before it gave me to much pain, so I didn't have to go to the doctor. I was very relieved.

It was the first week of May and I was preparing for my finals on Monday and throughout the week. I was at work and trying to study when I felt some pain. I was hoping it wasn't what I thought it was. I went to the bathroom and felt. There was that cyst again. It hurt to sit down but it wasn't real bad. So I let it go and told my husband that I have another cyst. So I made plans to go to the doctor as soon as I could but at the time, I had finals to prepare for.

So when Monday came around, my pain has increased. It was worst than ever before. After my 1st final, I went to the doctors office. The nurse practitioner felt of it and sent me into tears. She prescribed me antibiotics, Bactrium. She didn't give me anything for the pain so I just had to bare it. It was so sensitive. So I left and began the medication immediately. I went on the take my 2nd final. That night was horrible. I took warm baths hoping that would decrease the pain and the cyst.

I awoke Tuesday morning and began vomiting. This was very strange considering I don't ever get sick and if I do, I do not vomit. I called the doctor's office and told them thinking that maybe I was having an allergic reation to the medication. They said that was very rare but wrote me another prescribtion anyway, amoxicillen. I began taking that medication that day and discontiued the bactrium. I continued to vomit all day. But I did keep the medicine down. I assumed it was just a stomach virus. The pain was getting worse though. I was taking more warm baths because that was the only thing that relieved the pain. All Tuesday, I did not eat. I vomitied so much that I burnt the inside of my mouth up. That night I slept in the bath tub. With the vomiting and the pain, the bathroom was my heaven.

The next day (Wednesday), I was still vomiting and the pain was unbearable. I was crying and just couldn't take it anymore. I could not believe that the cyst got this bad. My family was worried beyond normal. They have never seen me in this bad of shape. I called my mother and asked her to take me to the ER. This would be the first time I had ever been to the ER in my life. I'm a very healthy person and I'm always exercising and just being active. She took me. I was as pale as a ghost and still vomiting and hurting. We finally got there and saw a doctor. He said that the cyst was to soft to drain. He said that it is highly doubted that I have an allergy to bactrium and said that it would help the cyst more than the amocillen. He said bactrium was my best bet for the infection also. He also prescribed me lorcets for my pain . As with the vomitimg, he said that it could be a stomach virus but to drink plenty of liquids but he gave my vingrin for the vomiting. So I left and began taking my new medicine. I went home with my mother because my husband was going to be out of town coaching a baseball game and she did not want me to be alone considering the medication I was on I hadn't ate since Monday night. I was weak and scaried. I knew something was really bad wrong. I shouldn't be hurting and vomiting like I did. For two days I was like that and each hour I was getting worse. The medicine did let me sleep for at least a couple of hours. That was the most sleep I recieved in those two days.

Thursday came rolling around and my mother was scared to death. She said I was pale as the dead and had these dark circles around me eyes. I was still very weak. The lorcets help some. Somtimes the worked good enough to get by and other times the didn't do anything. I had to reschedule one of my final that was suppose to be on Wednesday, so today I went to take my final. My professor looked at me and asked if I was okay. I honestly thought I was dying. I could barely walk. I wasn't even in my right mind sometimes. And still I couldn't eat. And again, all that day I took baths and sleep. It was all I could do. I didn't work go into work Thursday, which was my first time in ever missing working, so my boss defiantly knew something was wrong. 

Friday: I had another doctor appointment that day for a follow up on the one from Monday. The nurse and everyone there knew there was something bad wrong. They have knew me for years and they were worried. The nurse practiner looked at my cyst and again I screamed and cried like crazy. It even hurt to have someone to blow on it. She said that she couldn't drain it. She has drain others but she wouldn't dare to drain mine because it looked so bad. My lower back was beginning to swell really bad and it was moving up back. The cyst was so large that it began to turn black and blue. I told her that I've been vomiting since Tuesday morning and could not keep anything down, not even my medicine. She gave me a pregnace test but I wasn't pregnant. She told me that if I didn't get any better by Monday to go straight to the ER. And I didn't get any better. I was only getting worse. The nurse practinor made me an appointment with a surgeon and talk about having it removed that comeing Tueasday. So...I went into work Friday for some strange reason. I was training a new girl that night. But I end up laying in a back room vomiting untill my shift was over.

Saturaday came around and I could not even stand up. My husband had to help me walk around because I was so weak that I couldn't do it on my own. I was constantly crying. The pain was worse than ever. My husband took a look at the cyst and told me that I was going straight to the ER. He said it looked horrible. I again, I went to the ER. Final, I got back in there to see a doctor and they decided it was time to lance it. Thank God. I asked if it would be numb and she said that they had a numbing cream but since my cyst and so tender and hurt real bad that it might not really work. I asked if there was anything else and she said no. A nurse came in that put a genetric cream on me and said that it might work. Well, it didn't. The doctor came in and cut a small incision in my cyst. I screamed to the top of my lungs and cried as hard as I could. It was the worst pain I had ever been in. My husband was right there holding my hand and supporting me throught it all. The doctor talk me through it for what words of her's could get though between my screams. She then had to squeeze to get all the infection. This hurt as bad if not worse than the cutting. Finally after I begged mercy, she packed it. This was the least pain of it all. The doctor got a cup of green infection of the cyst. I was already schedule to see a surgeon that coming Tuesday. So she just told me to keep my appointment. I left the ER feeling 10 times better. I was sore but my pain meds were starting to kick in. I went home finally after being there for hours. When I got home, I ate some pizza. This was the first thing I ate in days, well since Monday night. I slept all that night. I tossed and turned but I slept great compared to the nights before.

Sunday my family came over to see me. I was going much better. I tried to throw up just gagged and all. Everything felt so much better. I felt better. The reason I was vomiting was due to the infection. Nobody did any blood work so no body knew that the infection leaked out into my system. That was why I was so sick and weak.

Tuesday came and I went and saw the surgeon. he told me that he could not do anything with it because it was still really infected and draining but to come back in two weeks and we would talk then. So I went back in two weeks and he said it looked really good. During those two weeks my husband had to change my packing 1 to 2 times a day. The first time was bad because it was sore but after a while I was fine and didn't even notice or really feel anything. He then told me my options. He said that I could continue with life and probably be right back in the same shoes I was in having to go through it all over again. OR.. I would have a surgery and it would decrease my chances of ever going though this ever again. I of course went with surgery. He explained everything to me and said that he will do the surgery in two weeks. I was nervous but I knew that it would help me in the long run. I know that there is always that chance of me getting one again but at least I did do everything I could possibly do to prevent on.

So on June 7, 2007 I had my surgery. I cam out and everything was great. I got two doses of Morphine which was great. I had five stiches on my butt. He used the lancing cut and then just kinda curved it into my butt crak but away from my tail bone. Today I had the stiches removed and I have to see him in about a month for a follow up to make sure that the tissue form real nice. Having stiches wasn't real bad. I was sore really bad for about a week. But that lighten up alot and then perocets helped me alot too. I could do much walking because of increase swelling. I had to take two weeks off work. Today I'm still a little sore and not able to sit right on my butt, I'm still having to lean...kinda sitting on you hip. But I am so glad that I had this surgery. I am so glad that I now feel back to my old self. I would recommend surgery to all, if their case calls for it. Just don't let the cyst get out of control. As soon as your get your first symptom, go straight to the hospital. I've did tons of research and know that I will always have a chance of one coming back but as long as I do everything in my possible control to not every go through a lancing or ever let it get that bad...I'm happy. The surgery was easier for me than the lancing because the cyst and the surrounding area was so tender when the lance it. But I promise that the pain form the lancing and the soreness and the healing and every was completely worth it. I wish everyone the best of luck with it because I know how hard it can be....Sarah


Date: June 21, 2007

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My first cyst was about 6 years ago. I was taking a bath and I thought "wow" my tailbone hurts. At the time it was strange because I don't do any kind of activity that would give me an injury like that. I told my mother and she said, well if you hurt your tailbone we better get you to the emergency room. I did't want to go, I was a little scared. When the doctor examined me he said "oh you have something on your tailbone but it is not from injury" I also had a fever. He told me that this was just the beginning and there was nothing I could do until it was ready to drain. I remember thinking oh just like a pimple it will be fine.

WELL I WAS WRONG.... The most awful pain followed. I went back to the emergency room three times.. I was mortified, thought soemthing was wrong, and they just said this is the most painful part.. they even gave me two perkidan leaving the ER. It finally was lanced, and I had the surgery, the minor one... Five years later it came back, same deal except no surgery... now it is back again, I am in a lot of pain. I am scard to have the major one, so I am opting for the minor one again. I think Pilonidal cysts need to be more widely known, it is scary, and painful, and make you panic like crazy... All I have to say to anyone who is not sure if they have it... is, if you have pain on your tailbone.. you feel crappy with a fever, it is red, go to the doctor immediately..


Date: June 20, 2007

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I have suffered with Pilonidal Sinuses since 1984. Since then I have had many recurrent ones but mainly at the top of the natal cleft. I believe that I have had around 10 operations on 5 sinuses in 4 different UK hospitals. I have had several different procedures - from draining and suturing through to draining, excision and packing or flap creation through plastic surgery .

I am currently undergoing daily packing for a PS that I had excised on February 25th this year. It was initially excised and then sutured together. Unfortunately 3 days after the stiches were removed the wound parted. I then resumed a daily packing regime with alginate dressing at my local Health Centre.

At the start the wound was quite deep and taking 40 cm strip of dressing to pack it but now it is very shallow and should heal in 1 - 2 weeks.

I can honestly say that the worst part of the whole procedure is the first time that the wound packing is rtemoved post surgery. In the early days this was ribbon gauze soaked in saline - and I have never experienced pain like it. I have even had morphine but I was still in great pain. The best results were when I was given a local anaesthetic of lignocaine to thw wound area - this worked really well I could barely feel a thing.

Finally, if you have or think that you ghave one of these get down to your doctors asap. The smaller the abcess means it it easier to treat and it will heal up faster. Don't be embarrased about it - it is a surprisingly common thing.

David


Date: June 14, 2007

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Wow... It seems like everybody knows someone whose suffered from a pilonidal cyst. I first got my signs way back in November of 2004.. I was a high school student enrolled in Florida Virtual School, the very first high school to go fully online. Anyways I was playing runescape at the time, I remember this in almost detail now, and I felt this.. sticky mess in my crack.. and there was some blood plus sensitive tissue, it was so weird. Like a tentacle coming out, I felt like that guy in alien, when I touched it, BAM! I was hit with like a bolt of pain, and then it vanished, like the flesh string was pulled back into a bloody crevice. Life went on after that incident, I was so scared past that night, I remember math class was the only one I needed to physically attend, and I hated it, because my cyst would constantly leak, I had to find ways of mopping up all the ooze and blood coming from my backside.

In January of 2005 I still had said nothing about my problem to anyone, just feeling depressed as hell... alone... but I found outlets to escape my thoughts.. chess! I played this game so much I joined a team and we event went to tournaments. My brother was also attending, and you know how little brothers can be, always fooling around and such. Well he thought it would be funny to "head-butt" me, he was like.. what.. 8 years? Anyways, he hit my tail bone dead on, and I swear it was like an explosion went off, I thought he had just completely broken something. I ran to the restroom immediately darting for the stalls. I pulled down my pants to see what the damage was... horrific. The blood was everywhere, just as I had experienced, although it wasn't all that painful anymore, just scary as hell. I mopped it all up with toilet paper, even my bloody hands, stuffed more in my boxers and went on my way. In February my little sister was born, and for whatever reason I had the strange Idea I had cancer, I mean I was completely devastated. With a new baby our medical bills would be out of the ceiling, and I was in such a state of shock I could do nothing. Most of my grandparents had died of some form of cancer, it seemed like the only logical explanation... about seven months later I finally brought myself to tell my family the bad news, just balling the whole way, from the living room to the hospital.

To make things a little shorter I got setup with surgery and the thing was removed, leaving a grand canyon size hole where my ass used to be.. seriously, I didn't even have an inch between my "o-ring" and the 7 inch long cut going down to the bone. Turns out waiting that long gave it time to nurse into a big beautiful pain in the everything. Fortunately after the first week being post-op I was rushed back to the hospital just in time to stop an infection that had taken advantage of a weakened immune system. Later the hospital staff got me on something called a wound-vac. The little machine was amazing at reducing pain plus healing, but there was a downside... it had to be changed every 3 days.. can you imagine that? we've got a wad of foam shoved into a deep wound, which is then covered with a HUGE sheet of super-stick plastic wrap and all sucked together for 48 hours. You can believe me when I tell you there is a hell.

To make things shorter.. took me 6 months to not even reach all the way healed, when the doc discovered another cyst. had another surgery, BUT! this time I ate steak, drank protein shakes, and downed those terrible protein bars, all along side lazer hair removal treatment, which by the way sucks ass. I'm all better now, thankfully, but I am soo worried about the future. You see I've been reading these stories and it sounds like the cysts are brought about by long periods of sitting, probably in my case from doing 6 hours of online school work each day in hardback chairs. It sounds like however that the way to get around all this junk is to just keep active, don't sit in funny positions, avoid getting kicked in the ass, and just keep a balance between your feet and the seat. Hopefully nothing like this has to happen again. Note.. anti-depressives are a great way to gaining health... you cannot believe how hard things were. Lots of love, -Bill Kilpatrick


Date: June 13, 2007

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I had just turned 13 (I am now 30). Was at school playing crab soccer. I fell and my butt hit the floor. I went home that evening complaining of pain and told my mom I thought I might have cracked my tailbone or something. My mother was against going to the doctor over every little pain. So her answer to me was "they cannot do anything about a cracked tailbone, deal with it". Yes my mother was harsh, but that's another story and another chapter of my book that I will not discuss here.

3 months later of excruciating pain of being barely able to sit. All my school classes were on the 2nd floor with no elevator. I finally decided that I had dealt with that pain enough. I called my grandmother and told her I needed to see the doctor. She called my mom at work and threatened her at work, or else! (Thanks grandma) Finally was taken to the doctor and they told her I would more than likely need surgery and sent me to a specialist.

 I made for sure to see a female specialist because I did not want a another man looking at my behind. The specialist lanced it right there in the office. She said to wait a couple of weeks and see if it gets any better and that if it didn't to make another appointment and we would schedule a surgery. Well it helped but did not fix the situation. So we went back and scheduled the outpatient surgery. After the surgery the doctor told my mother that she got a "wad of hair out of there that was the size of a baseball" Eww. She also told my mom that a Open Healing is the best way to go, there is a smaller risk of it every coming back again if you let it heal instead of stitches or staples. So that's the route we went. The good news is because of this surgery and the way they wanted my wound to heal, I was off school for a month!

I am no 30 and have never had another episode. But I still have the scar to prove I had it. LOL. It does not go away despite what some people may think. It does not look as bad, but its still there. A scar about 3 to 4 inches long right down my butt crack. My family is a bit on the hairy side, even the females, so I do tend to blame this on the genes. LOL.

To all the girls, teenagers, etc. Please do not worry about this. Especially if you are in your dating years and are becoming sexually active anytime soon. Be upfront about it, and if they love you, they won't care what your butt looks like. If they do care, then you didn't need them anyway, and move on. I always felt self conscience about it, but realized years later that it didn't matter. I have found the true love of my life and it doesn't bother him one bit, he says its a part of me, and he loves every inch.


Date: June 11, 2007

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I'm 23 year old female and about a month ago around May 8th I started feeling uncomfortable pain near my tailbone, I thought I somehow could of fractured my tailbone or may have pulled a muscle near my tail bone. the pain kept on getting worse and worse. I went to my primary 2 weeks after experiencing the pain, told her all my symptoms and she said nothing was wrong with me. The next night the pain was worse, it was 1 in the morning and I could not sleep, I ended it up going to the emergency room where they then told me I had pilonidal cyst. They gave me antibiotics and percocets. I lived with the pain and percocets till the following Thursday where I went to see a rectal/colon surgeon. He informed me that I needed to get surgery and it would be done for the next morning which was May 25th.

When I went to the hospital next morning for my surgery, the nurses were pleasant and helpful. They gave me local anesthesia which knocked me out right away, I was in surgery for only 20-30 min. and 2 hours later I was at a restaurant eating lunch and went home. I only took percocets for 3 days. I had an open wound surgery, no stitches involved. I refused to look at my wound for 2 weeks, I went online to see pictures of open wound pilonidal surgery and they did not look pretty. I finally decided to take a look at it last Tuesday and it’s a really small whole about the size of a quarter or even small. I don't have any pain, the surgery went smooth, its been two weeks and I've been out partying and enjoying the summer. My surgeon was incredible, it is very important you research the surgeon and at best go see a rectal/colon specialist surgeon for they are more experienced. I hear stories about how bad people’s surgeries have gone and how deep and big the incision was and I am so thankful and lucky for my surgeon.

It’s been 2 weeks and I'm healing the wound is closing hopefully another two weeks to go, I highly recommend the open wound rather then the stitching. The stitching will cause an infection and the open wound most likely will not, plus no scarring. If you live in the New Jersey area, my surgeon was Dr. Bruno Bufalini, he is excellent!!!


Date: June 11, 2007

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I am a 35 year old female and the first time I remember noticing my cyst was at 19. I had fallen while bowling (yes, bowling) and thought that I had just hurt my tailbone.

Since that time, my cyst has gotten agitated 4-5 times a year, but nothing I couldn't manage. If I slept on pillows, didn't sit directly on it, sat on special cushion in the car, I could deal with it. When it did get agitated, it would hurt really bad for about two days and then get smaller and less agitated within a week. It never drained. Or if it did, I was not aware of it (but based on the info on this site, it seems like I would have been really aware of it draining). My GP diagnosed me at 28 and told me to have it removed. She had seen awful ones in residency and didn't want mine to get worse over the years. Told me that pregnancy might complicate it, etc.

 I saw the surgeon the GP recommended within about six months of that time. But by then I was 11 weeks pregnant with my first baby. The surgeon was incredibly honest with me and said not only would he not do anything while I was pregnant, but also said something to the effect that he did not have a lot success with removing pilonidal cysts and that they often came back after he removed them... and if I wanted someone with a better history, I should see someone else! Needless to say, I was scared to death.

So six years later, I still had the cyst and it was starting to get agitated more often (once a month) and a little more painful each time (however, still no draining). I was done having babies (and my cyst was not agitated in either pregnancy), I had done a lot of research here and felt it was worth a try again. I actually went back to the same surgeon I had seen six years ago and he told me that since I had last seen him, he had also done research because he wanted to stop doing pilonidal surgery altogether unless he could get them right. He contacted Dr. Bascom on several occasions and learned the technique and felt he had perfected the surgery and had not had anyone return with a reoccurrence since perfecting the Bascom surgery.

So my surgery was 4 days ago. And so far so good. Not being able to take a shower stinks and the tube coming out of my behind (for drainage) stinks, but I am not in a lot of pain. In fact, I only took 3 of the 60 pain pills I was prescribed. I am only uncomfortable sitting/sleeping and I feel even that improving each day. I had some trouble with the general anesthesia (should have pushed for the MAC), but otherwise am in pretty good shape. I am very active and physically fit so that may have been to my benefit. The surgeon suggested that I would be back to my normal activities (including “vigorous exercise”) a week after surgery. I am hoping he is right.

My advice to all of you, find a surgeon you trust. Even if it means waiting or seeing three or four until you get it right. Reading some of the horror stories here seem basically like malpractice suits waiting to happen IMHO and really scared me into making sure my surgery was done right. Good luck to all of you and speedy recoveries!

Not sure where to add my surgeon to the Hall of Fame, but his name is Dr. James Dickey and he practices on the Monterey Peninsula of California.


Date: June 10, 2007

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Well, i read some of these recent stories posted.. and it sucks. ive had it for 4 years now.. 3 surgerys and seeing a wound specialist... Ive been out of work for 2 years becuz of this.. and some of u complain that uve been out of work for 2 months.. HA! I just had another surgery in febuary and still seeing my doctor for folow ups 2 times a week since then. I have a HUGE scar from my lower area all the way ubove my underwear line..HUGE! Still on meds for it.. hopefully its done this time.. but please, take this seriouslly and dont complain u have it bad.. cuz i have it worse and im only 23.. no kids and cant have kids until its 100%...


Date: June 09, 2007

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Wanted: Single, 20-26 year-old male and fellow pilonidal cyst sufferer from DFW area. Must have a good personality, positive attitude and good listening skills. Deep dislike for hospitals is optional. Must like movies, tv, and anything low-maintenance. Whiners need not apply. Kelly kglass03@gmail.com


Date: June 08, 2007

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I have had a pilonidial cyst for about four years I have only had breakouts about twice a year. In Jan.2007 i got a pretty bad one and went on antibiotics after two weeks it was still very painful so i went on them again for two more weeks. I started doing a lot of research and realized how bad this problem was and surgery did not guarantee you would not get it again. After meeting with three doctors I found a plastic surgeon that was recomended by a friend. When I called the office they told me about 80% of pilonidal cyst that he sees do not need surgery.When I went in he simply said to keep area clean and free of hair(i use nair every three days) and so i have done for over four months with no out breaks. I am sure glad i went to him instead of having surgery. Bottom line I would advise everyone who has this to do everything they can before they have surgery. Dennis If anyone would like to talk to me about this you can e-mail me at paquetdev@roadrunner.com


Date: June 06, 2007

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I am a 30 year old female. I have had this for a long time but like everyone else mine got about the size of a golfball and drained. It was very painful up until the time it burst of course on a weekend while my family doctor's office wasn't open. There was no way I was going to the ER since I work in the hospitol already. So I waited went in on the Monday after the weekend she swabbed it gave me antibiotics about a week later I went back due to my daughter having shots and told her it was still draining and she refered me to a general surgeon. We live in a small town so thats all we have here. He told me basically surgery and that was it. I had mine done on May 17th. I was kinda prepared for what went along with all of this from info on the web. I had my surgery went home the same day. He told me it was a good thing I had mine done when I did because it was starting to tunnel. It is now June 6th. I finally get to go back to work next week working half days. So be prepared for boring days ahead. They are now wanting to put a wound vac on me to speed up my healing process. Due to my job requires so much sitting. I do insurance follow up in the hospitol. I told them I expected a call from insurance before we start hooking me up to this thing to see what it will pay for. I knew it would be a long healing process but did not expect to be off work as long as I have been. The dressing changes are a drag which I tend to get bored with things pretty easily. But my husband has done a wonderful job taking care of me. So if you have one of these things get it taken care of because it don't get no better the longer you put it off the worse I think it will be. So good luck! Hope this helped.


Date: June 06, 2007

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Hello, I first got this Pilonidal Cyst right after I had my daughter. I continued to get them every 3-6 months! Mine were very very painful. I couldn't sit, lay, or walk! It was bad! I even laid on my living room floor one night with a roll of frozen sausage....my boyfriend and my mother laughed so hard!! Anyway, this last time I got one I had no choice but to my local clinic to a general surgeon. She gave me an appointment for the following morning. The surgery was a success! She took out 1 3/4 cup of pus and stuff out of it! The whole I had was huge!!! My mother had to stay with me everyday for 2 months to pack and clean my wound everyday! I was getting some medicine but on it to make it scar up for a month! After all this I though it would be healed up, unfortunely I went back cause it was giving me problems it had opened back up and was 2 inchs deep! She put the medicine on it again and put me back on antiboitics. I went back today and it was all healed up! My doctor told me that it might come back!! Sheena


Date: June 06, 2007

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Hi all! I had my first (and hopefully only!) pilonidal cyst lanced yesterday. My story is a bit complicated because I am currently 29 weeks pregnant! Because of my pregnancy, I thought the growing back pain was just my sciatic flaring up until I started to get a bludge. The pain was horrible! I couldn't sit, stand, or lie down. Sleeping became a memory because I could only lie on one side and that made my hip hurt so I would consistently wake every 2-3 hours and need to get out of bed. I also have a one year old and trying to bend to pick him up and chase him around the house...Oi! My buldge went from non-exsistent to being about the size of a golf ball in three days. I would say that the pain was comparable to labor pains, maybe worse. I had my regular doctor visit yesterday and the PA knew what it was immediately and I was sent to a surgeon, who lanced it for me. The lancing hurt a hell of a lot less that living with the damn thing! Thankfully, my mother is a RN and my husband is a CNA so I have experienced, non-squeemish people to help keep me clean and packed. The surgeon said that as soon as the baby is born, I can have my cyst completely removed. With any luck, it won't flare up again between now and the beginning of August!


Date: June 06, 2007

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Hey Im a 21 year old graduate. After discovering a lump and a pit at the top of my bottom i thought nothing of it. In fact apart from becoming very itchy at times i felt little or no pain which was strange because everyone who i talked to told me that normally i would have been in serious pain or discomfort. After showing it to my doctor during a routine visit he forwarded me on to a colo-rectal surgeon who informed me that i had a Pilonidal abscess and two small pits. Due to the required healing time (of approximately 2-3 weeks) i couldn't go for surgery straight away because of college requirements (I wasn't given the option of lancing or draining). 2 weeks ago i had my surgery and it was much worse than was expected. A two inch long abscess had swiftly grown to over 12" long over a period of five months. Everything was removed and i just got my stiches out today. Its not a pretty picture down and i went through a lot of stress and post surgery depression as well as a lot of frustration. (Im pretty active so having to do nothing all day was quite irritating).

My case was a rare one however as such infections are not inclined to grow at such a speed (the surgeon was quite surprised when she made th first incision). There is still a bit of discomfort and the itching has died down a bit (it was really and literally a pain in the ass prevoiusly) but im starting to feel a lot more mobile. I reckon it won't be for another two weeks before before i start feeling a lot better and another six weeks before im completly healed. If you're going for a surgery, allow yourself two weeks completly free from any sort of obligations. Anything stressful will only make your situation worse. IF you want to contact me about anything my email address is ianm032@hotmail.com. Ian


Date: June 05, 2007

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I am a female & just had surgery on 06-01-07 & let me tell you that it was the BEST thing I ever did. I've had this for as long as I can remember & it wasn't until I was 33 before it broke on me. I assumed once it broke it was going to heal & be okay for the next 33 years but that didn't happen. I also had drainage for over 3 months of it opening & healing before I decided to have it removed. I went in on Friday morning, I was on the treadmill walking 3 miles on Saturday, Sunday, I'm at work Monday & today SITTING at my desk. This is the end of day 4 for me & I feel NO pain! (Other than some tugging of the stitches). I'm not big on surgery or needles but man am I glad I did this! Driving isn't the best thing but tolerable. Maybe I didnt' have a severe case I don't know but I know I was supposed to be put under Genereal Anesthesia but only ended up with Local so I'm assuming it wasn't the worst they've seen. It was a LOT worse dealing with the drainage & constantly being uncomfortable. If you're suffering, just DO IT!!!!!


Date: June 05, 2007

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Hello... I am a 19 year old female and I am about to go under my 3rd pilonidal removal surgery. I got my very first cyst when I was 17 and in my junior year of high school. I didnt know what was wrong with me. All I know is that I had a serious pain in my butt. I didnt want to tell my dad cause I didnt want him thinking I was playing a joke on him. I waited till I couldnt stand the pain. It got so bad that the doctor was amazed that I wasnt seriously sick. My first surgery was just to get it lanced. Nothing too serious... Well the wound never healed. So the doctor that did the lancing was transferred to another hospital (I live on a military base). The new surgeon had to go in and close the wound from the inside out. 2 years passed and now I have another flare up. I went to go talk to my surgeon that did the last surgery and come to find out that he had broke his hand the day before my appointment. Man was I angry!! So my insurance made me go out to another hospital close to home. So as of tomorrow (wed 6/6) I will be undergoing another surgery to have the cyst completely removed. I am praying that the cyst doesnt return.


Date: June 05, 2007

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I recently found out a friend has "joined the club" so to speak and passed on this great site that sure helped me back on 9/11/01 when it ironically all started for me at age 37 (male/Seattle)! All our stories are so similar and glad people don't have to suffer this silently and hopefully feel less embarrassed.

While out dining with friends to discuss our shock and horror of that day's events, I couldn't get comfortable on the non-cushioned seats. What I thought was just a pimple turned into that painful nightmare none of us ever expected. Initially it broke while showering, but never healed and tired of cramming tissue in my shorts like everyone else! Within a week I was in agonizing pain and could barely drive myself to the doctor. He knew immediately what it was and lanced it (so painful, even with a local, I needed a shot of bourbon and a tree branch to bite on like some cheesy western). I couldn't believe it and he was suitably impressed by the affliction as well. He hooked me up with an affiliated surgeon and the operation was scheduled November 2001. This surgeon had never done this procedure before, but had a sterling reputation. He told me he was researching and wanted to try a new procedure that had just been recently introduced to treat this. I don't recall the formal name, but basically "the flap" is what I would refer to it. I felt a little odd being the guinea pig for this guy, but he seemed very dilligent and well regarded in his field.

The operation went very smooth, although it took me a while to pass out and I could have done without the Nip/Tuck type music cranking in the OR (Tool & Pantera for you young folks-this coming from a 60 yar old surgeon!). All went very well and he said about 2-2.5 inches of tissue were removed. I had a large amount of cotton packing sealed in with liquid skin sealant, which lasted for days and daily showering, so that was great. Ask for this. I was stoned on painkillers for about 3-4 days and each day got better. Actually a nice break from a stressful job. Basically he wanted me on the bed or couch for a week. After the packing wore out, I had a check-up due. He placed a large adhesive bandage over it and I kept that up. I had no issues at all healing and now I have this slight little mini- fold over cleft to the right of my crack. It's kinda odd, but you wouldn't notice it unless you really wanted to check out my butt. My other half thinks it's cute and I am not the least self conscious about it. I'd suggest you all inquire for this technique should you require surgery for minimal scarring. Being a somewhat hairy guy, my doctor advised me to keep my crack shaved to prevent any future issues. I did for about a year, but to be honest, not one of my favorite ways to spend time, so it went by the wayside.

It's now over 5 years later and I have not had one symptom since the surgery and feel I was 100% cured. I'm told it could happen again, but minimal chance. In closing, I just want to tell all of you out there to please consider having surgery as soon as possible to get over this and get on with life. Good luck and thanks for all your input. It sure helped me out!


Date: May 31, 2007
 

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Hello and thank you to everyone who has sent in their stories. I had my first flare up one week ago, I thought it was a zit or a boil of some sort on my tail bone. When I was able to drain it I thought my problem had come to an end. I just had my second flare up and was informed by my father that he had his Pilonidal cyst at the age of 42, same age I am right now. With the old mans insight I stopped by my dermotologist who stated it was in fact a pilonidal cyst and he refered me to his surgeon. The surgeon will be giving me his thoughts on this nasty little creature tomorrow at nine in the morning. I feel for all those who have this darn thing because I have the severe back pains as well, until it drains! What a relief it is when it does drain! I also found out ten years ago that I had spinal bifida (mild form) when I was involved in a severe car accident and the hospital had performed a cat scan, checking for other injuries. I was shocked to read that this is one of the causes for the nasty creature, among other things. I will post how it goes with the surgeon tomorrow, lord knows I am not going to let it go on or let it get any bigger or deeper for that fact. As far as I am concerned right now he can dig it out with a rusty railroad spike, I just want the pain and drain to go away. Good luck to all...


Date: May 30, 2007
 

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HI , I am 28 year old male. Just came back from doctor to find out that I also have a cyst. No idea what it means. It has just started paining from last week and I have problems in driving and sitting. Browsing on net brought me here ,I am afraid that it will stay with me forever. I have taken an appointment with the surgeon in next week and hopefully he will suggest me something to get rid of this pain. Dont know what I should do ,just lance or have a surgery. ,dont even know if the insurances cover this type of thing. Will keep posted what happens as I start my trips to the surgeon.


Date: May 30, 2007
 

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Hello I'm a 22 year old nursing student, and I was diagnosed with a pilonidal cyst a year ago. I'm currently going through my second flare up so I'm typing this lying on my stomach, but you all know how that is. I have always been thin and initially thought that I had pain in my tailbone area occasionally as a result. I'm so glad I found this site, because after my diagnosis I went to a website and thought this was a hairy man's disease. I've now learned that it isn't. I've been amazed with how much the nurses I work with completely don't understand the pain from the cyst. I've been honest about it all along. My first flare up was about 4 months ago and this second one is much worse. The surgeon said the surgery was worse than living with the disease and just sent me home. Tomorrow he is going to do something about it. I'm scared and I hate missing work because I love what I do. My family thinks it's a very wierd fluke, and I found it impossible to explain this to my Japanese grandmother! I'd love to hear some advice on special cushions, remedies(hot baths haven't worked) or other things that I can do until I have surgery. If you have some advice please message me on yahoo messenger my screenname is japanese_lotus.


Date: May 28, 2007
 

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This is for the Girls! I'm finally having my surgery to remove the sac on June 8. Wish me luck! They're going to do an open wound heal and thankfully my mother will be there to change the packing. I'm nervous about having general anesthesia but when I had the consult my usually normal heart rate and blood pressure was off the charts (I was scared, I thought they were going to remove it that day). I had the worst flare up two years ago, about a week before I started my first job out of college. Before I started work I was sitting on my butt being a couch potato and got that itch. So of course I scratched it! Then, within a day it seems, I couldn't sit without leaning forward, I couldn't sleep on my back, it really was excruciating. It was either a sharp pain or constant throb. I went to the doctor who was of course was FINE. Seriously. Like an actor or something. So, I turned away from him, pulled my pants down and whimpered quietly. He took one look and said, "It's a Boil, you need antibiotics." I turned beet red, pulled my pants up, grabbed the perscription, and ran! I had seen Harold and Kumar Go to White Castle so I definitley associated boils with 'other people'

The cyst drained for a good two days. Perhaps 3/4 of a cup. Nayyystay. The sac extended clear on either side of my butt. And foul smelling. So I had another flare up 4 months later but this time closer to my crotch, and another 4 months later, and another 3 months later. I am a very careful girl but I was freaked that I had caught an STD so I ordered every test imaginable. All negative. Now, it's been there and ready for a flare up for the last 6 months. I went to the dermatologist a month ago and he was the first one who said pilonidal cyst and he immediately referred me to surgery. I googled around and found this website. What a lifesaver! My sister had a big fat mouth and told her friends but one of them came out of hiding - the friend had had one but NO insurance and had a horrible time. All she could afford to do was get it lanced and she knows and can feel that it will be back.

ITEM OF ADVICE about sexual relations - I read on this website that after it heals the skin where the cyst was is less strong than other skin. I found out the hard way. I was having relations with the ex and he had his hands on my hips, pressing down (I was facing away from him). Girls, or Gay Guys, or Guys who like Strong Girls: do NOT let your partner(s) press down on your butt cheeks! The skin where the cyst had been stretched and BROKE and started to bleed. He totally freaked out. "WHY IS YOUR ASS CRACK BLEEDING" He wasn't grossed out really, but was just worried about my ass crack, like, what is wrong with this chick who's seemingly fine ass-crack just started to bleed. hahaha. So be careful out there in lust land!

As for work - I'm trying to navigate around why I'll be gone for a week. I was talking to my boss and I said, "Oh I'm having lower back surgery" He looked at me and said, "You haven't mentioned you've had pain..." then I tried, "Oh, I've got a benign cyst right on my spine" which is an interesting way to spin the truth. All the secretaries know the deal but there's no way I either need to or want to tell people what's going on. So I'm going with the benign cyst on my spine story even though my friend thinks I'm digging myself deeper into an implausible hole. So, surgery is June 8. They're going to go in, remove the actual sack (it isn't inflamed right now but there's def. stuff in there) and then 'probe' to check for additional infected tissue and remove that if it's there. Peace, and really: thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you! Signed, Lovin' Jesus Cuz I Know He Loves My Butt No Matter What


Date: May 28, 2007
 

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I am a 28 year old male and my first indication of my cyst was at the age of 23. I had gone river rafting a few weeks before and though I had just bruised my tailbone floating down the river. I waited for the pain to go away but the swelling kept building and I eventually felt a golf size ball lump in the small of my back right above my butt. I went to the ER and had it lanced and drained and I immediately felt better. I had to have it packed for about 3 days and it eventually closed on its own. I talked options with the surgeon to see what to do. He actually wanted a removal with open heal and possible cleft lift to alleviate the area. We talked recurrence rates and I decided against the surgery for the time being. I have had it flair up twice since then and it is about ever 2 years.

I am actually writing this during the most recent flair up. I have successfully treated it with antibotics since the first drain I had to have. Now we all know that antibotics will do nothing to rid yourself of the cyst but if you practice good hygeine and you are careful you should rarely if ever get flare ups. The antibotics can treat the infection which is causing the pain and swelling. A full spectrum of 10 day antibotics seems to work for me as long as I catch it early. I routinely check that area for a hardening of the underlying tissue. I am on day of my 10 day Kefelex treatement and I have already noticed a reduction in the size of the inflamation. Best of luck to all of you out there....its a hard and painful disease to live with but we could all be worse off.


Date: May 23, 2007
 

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I am a 24 year old female. I attend college and am a part time collections agent, so most of my life is seating down, whether studying, at work or driving to the two. I now know this is the main reason for this dreadful thing. About two months ago I noticed there was an odd tingling on my tailbone. Shortly after, about two days, and there was a pain I can not even describe. At first I thought maybe I hit it on something, but I couldn't recall something that would cause that much pain. I went right to my doctor, she took one quick look and told me what I had, a pilonidal cyst, and that it would get worse. I could not even fathom at the time that the pain could get worse. Well I soon learned it could. The next day I was in so much pain I couldn't do anything, I went to the emergency room and was quickly treated.

The doctors drained some fluid and put me on antibiotics for ten days. I was informed I should go to a surgeon. Well when I went to the general surgeon, my doctor referred me to him, he told me I was born with a hole in my back and basically not to worry. Something told me not to believe him. I did some extensive research myself, laying on my stomach in bed. I found out so much from this website, it has been my savior. Shortly after my dose of antibiotics were finished, my pilonidal came back again. I knew now that I needed to do something. I went to another surgeon, this time a colon and rectal surgeon, which by the way is definately the kind of surgeon you want to see if you have a pilonidal cyst. Well I got trampled that day, he also did an interal exam on me and found out I need surgery on two more conditions as well as the pilonidal and that he was also going to be doing a colonoscopy the day after Memorial Day, I will be on a clear liquid diet on Memorial Day.

I am having the Bascom procedure done as well as the other two internal procedures on June 15th. Let's just say that is going to be a VERY bad day for me. I was told that I will need three weeks of recovery after, which is okay with me because it will not interupt with my education. I am very scared and find myself crying and noticing the word BUTT a whole lot more than I did before this whole nightmare. For all just remember, it could be worse. I feel so crushed but am always trying to do things to cheer myself up. I just donated my hair to Locks-of-Love which was very rewarding and it made me remember that it could be worse. Well I would love if someone would talk to me about this who has experienced it first hand. I am getting a little tired of people saying I wish I knew what you were going through or at least you found out what it is, yeah but now I have to deal with it. Please email me at canalea531@aol.com, include pilonidal in the subject please. I NEED SOME SUPPORT


Date: May 22, 2007
 

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Hi, I am a 29 year old woman from the UK. I had a pilonidal abscess in December 2000 which, although it was quite possibly the most painful thing I had ever had, healed well after surgery. Shortly after, my pilonidal sinus developed. Although it was quite alarming to look at, it didn't really give me too many problems, perhaps one or two flare ups a year. My GP referred to me to a specialist who recommended that I have an operation to remove it. I had the operation in January 2006 which went very well and the wound healed in around 6 weeks. Although I had been warned that it may not solve the problem, I was confident that all was OK as my sinus had not really given me many problems.

I naively assumed that I wouldn't have to worry about it again. Well, I was wrong. It came back and now I am having extremely painful flare ups approx every three months which take over my life for a couple of weeks at a time. I have to take strong antibiotics which make me feel sick and dizzy and it is practically impossible to work during this time and I feel exhausted as I can't relax or sleep properly. I am now on the waiting list for another, bigger operation to remove the sinus. I have again been told that it may not work but I figure that I have nothing to lose so I may as well give it another go. I would, however, urge people to think carefully about having surgery, particularly if their sinus isn't really giving them much trouble. I have had more flare ups in the time since my operation that I had in the preceeding five years and I really wish now that I hadn't had the initial surgery. I just hope that the next operation works that that I will finally be free from this. Isn't it amazing how something so small can cause so much pain???


Date: May 22, 2007
 

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Hi! I'm a 19-year-old college sophomore, and wow, this was an experience. I'm a fairly private girl, so I definitely had to overcome some issues with having strangers poking around my crack. It's been 12 days since my surgery (excision with primary closure) and things are going very well. I actually knew what pilonidals were before I ever found out that I had one. I remember reading someone's personal account on an unrelated message board and thinking, "God, GROSS, I'm so glad that probably won't happen to me." And then, April of my senior year, I felt a very unwelcome pain on my tailbone. I pretended not to know what it was, while the pain increased, until it drained (about a week after I first felt it). I didn't go to a doctor--shame on me! I can't believe I could have done this a year ago! I didn't have another flare-up for a year.

My cyst flared up just in time to wreck my spring break. Knowing that it would be a looong drive back to school sitting on my angry behind, I sucked it up and went to a dermatologist to have the cyst drained. The dermatologist recommended surgery over the summer. Before I knew it, I was meeting with the surgeon to have him look at my cyst and fill me in on what his surgery entailed. He was very friendly and explained the surgery simply and clearly, with just enough detail. I was in surgery three days later. I love the whole hospital experience, so I didn't have much anxiety going into surgery. (The sedatives were great all the same, of course.) I was in and out without any problems, and from what I could tell, the surgery went just fine. I was at home a few hours later and slept for the day. The next week wasn't too bad- I had a Percocet every three hours and didn't feel much pain. Of course, I spent most of the week lying on my side or stomach, avoiding sitting up at all costs.

A little over a week into my surgery, I thought my rear looked totally alarming. It was red around all the sutures and itched like CRAZY. Fortunately, I was told that all of that is normal--the itching is part of the healing process, and the sutures were fairly large and irritating to my skin, causing the redness. I found that a heating pad helped with the itching, and for a few days, I had to take NyQuil to keep me sleeping through it. I had half the stitches removed today, and I'll get the other half out in a little over a week. The surgeon said he was tempted to remove all the stitches today, but decided to play it safe. I'm sitting on my butt right now with minimal discomfort, and I've been driving for a few days. Here's my message to all the fairly private girls like me--forget about your privacy for the sake of your health! It's not worth sitting through the pain, and you've got to get it taken care of anyway. It just gets worse as time goes on. Really. I've had around 10 people poking around my rear at some point in this process, and they've all been totally understanding and professional. Plenty of them know people who've gone through the same thing, and frankly, they've ALL seen much, much worse.


Date: May 19, 2007
 

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Hi, I am a 30 year old female and have had a polynidal cyst since college (10 years ago). I just had surgery 4 weeks ago. I was very nervous because I had never had surgery before but they knocked me out so I don't remember anything. When I woke up I had a ton of bandages down there and it was very sore. I took a lot of pain pills the first 3 days, but after that I was up and walking around. They stitched it up and my stitches were removed after 12 days. It was a huge relief having those removed. it felt much better. The skin is growing back and i go back for my checkup this week, I am hoping it's okay. I have been exercising and went back to work this past week so I was off for 3 weeks total, i could have used another week. I sit at a computer for 8 hours a day and that has been a struggle. I put off surgery for years, but am so glad that I finally went through with it. Overall, it wasn't too bad.


Date: May 19, 2007
 

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I am a 25 year old female. I first experienced the pain in my butt when I was 20(I think). The first time I felt the pain I thought it was because I wearing tight jeans. But a few days later when the pain still didn't go away, I looked in the mirror and saw a small zit like thing. And I am very acne prone and thought, "Oh god, another zit?! And that too on my ass?!" And just waited for it to go away. Eventually when the "zit" didn't go away and it started becoming more and more difficult for me to sit for too long and unable to slouch, I went to the doctor and he said it was a cyst. He advised me to go to ER and see someone right away and I freaked out and started crying thinking that I had some sort of a disease or something.

 I went to ER, waited for a doctor and they did a mini-operation where they numb the area and cut open the absess to take out all the pus. I was so relieved after that thinking,"thank God, the pain is gone!!" Within a few months it was back and I got the same thing done again, this happened 2-4 times before I gave up and just hoped and waited for the cyst to go away on it's own. After about 4 years of unbearable and uncomfortable pain in the ass (LITERALLY), I started researching the net for the cyst and what to do about and that's when I realized that I would have to make frequent trips to the doctor to have them clean up the pus or get a surgery done, but the cyst wasn't going to go away on its own. Sitting, standing, sleeping, running, jumping, excercising, being intimate, relaxing, walking, any and everything I did reguarly, I would have this stupid cyst on my mind and I was at the point where I thought I should just DIE!!

After much thinking and fear, I decided to finally go through with the surgery. I had the surgery done by a specialist 8 days ago and am in the process of healing now. I am seeing my doctor in 3 days for a follow up and will see how it goes from there. I WILL come back here and post the follow up results. FYI - After the surgery, the doctor may prescriber Tylenol 3 for pain, they have codeine in them, be careful and pay attention to your diet, as it causes EXTREMELY TERRIBLE AND PAINFUL constipation, I was stuck in the damn bathroom for almost 8 HOURS!!!! I would like to thank the creator of this Web site for all their support and making us comfortable enough to share our feelings and pain, I definitely don't feel alone in this anymore. See ya!!


Date: May 17, 2007
 

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Greetings, my name is Stan. I have battled pilonidal problems for thirty four years. I have been lanced, closed surgery, open surgery, and two months ago Bascom and Bascom (Father and Son) worked together to do a cleft lift operation on me. Earlier on this page I described the one month status. Now, at the two month point life is great for me. No pain. No drainage. I have driven a sports car with stiff suspension and low bucket seats for five hours with no discomfort. I am hiking logging roads with steep hills for two hours at a time with no problems. I just attended a conference with hard wooden chairs where we met for ten hours a day for three days. Before the procedure I would stand most of the time and still be in pain. After the procedure I had no discomfort. I am golfing again with no discomfort. Considering the lack of pain during recovery, (I took zero painkillers,) I should have done this many years ago. Of course, I have had pilonidal problems lay domant for up to ten years before exploding. So final judgment is still a ways off but so far so good. And finally the bills are all in. My cost will be about $2,000.00 from a total cost of about $6,000.00. I had insurance. If you have questions about this surgery, or my other ones, or recovery times, or anything else contact me at stanbiles@aol.com. In your title please mention "pilonidal". Stan


Date: May 15, 2007
 

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My story began when I was 17 years old. After taking a shower one evening I was drying off with a towel. I started drying off at the top of my buttocks when a sharp pain hit me. Looking in the mirror I thought it was a pimple, however two weeks later it looked worse and I had my father look at it. That's when we went to the surgeon and he informed us that we were dealing with a pilonidal cyst. This was the summer before my senior year in High School so I wanted to wait to do anything about it- BIG MISTAKE. That November it had gotten worse , and during Christmas break I had the operation.

The surgery lasted about 2 1/2 hours and I was in the hospital for almost two weeks-this was in 1978. The post-op was long and the bleeding and seepage seemed to never subside. About 3 months went by and it started healing nicely. Talking to my surgeon later he informed me that this was the 2nd largest pilonidal cyst he had ever seen either in person or in text books-lucky me. I am 46 years old now, married, with two sons. My cyst came back about 5 years after the surgery. I take three showers a day and use anti-bacterial soap to keep it clean. It is hard to wear light colored pants and tough to tuck in shirts for fear of discoloring due to seepage. I figure that I will die with this pilonidal cyst. This is the first time that I have talked about this problem outside of my family. I sympathize with any person that is dealing with this condition-hang in there it could be worse.


Date: May 11, 2007
 

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Even now as a 35 year old male I remember my pilonidal cyst experience like it was yesterday. I was a sophomore in College(1992) when I first began to experience the pain associated with pilonidal cysts. My problem was acute from the beginning with some discharge. With some of the later cysts I had enough blood draining that it would go through several gauze pads and my clothing. From the first experience of pain to the one year anniversary of the last surgery was a total of 4 years. My first surgery was done by a plastic surgeon and was done as a closed wound. This began to heal but never went away and was followed by another cyst.

The second surgery was done by the same surgeon as an open wound and allowed to heal from the inside out. This wound healed but I soon had another cyst. For the third and fourth surgeries I went to another doctor. I believe the third surgery was done as a closed wound and did not completely heal. The fourth surgery was a flap rotation operation and this healed but I did shortly afterwards have another cyst.

For the fifth and final surgery I went to Mayo Clinic, where I saw a Colon & Rectal Surgeon. They were amazed at the number of surgeries and were thankful I had come to them before having another surgery. They informed me that if I had had another surgery they may not have been able to help due to the amount of scar tissue in the area. The surgery was a slightly updated form of the flap rotation surgery I had on my fourth surgery. I was placed in a specialized bed and stayed in the hospital for 12 days. I was in the bed for about 10 of those days. When I left the hospital the doctors wanted me to take a plane home but fortunately I was able to ride in the very back of my mom's van and lay on the floor so she wouldn't have to drive the 9 hours home alone. I went on the recover fine and have had no problems in the 12 years since the last surgery.


Date: May 10, 2007
 

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Hi, I am a 22 year old female who battled the ooogly cyst for a few years. I posted in October that I had a closed surgery for my cyst and that it was healing well at the time. I had the surgery done as an outpatient procedure in Portland Oregon by a Dr. Renee Quarterman (I believe that is how it's spelled...she's part of the providence network) She looked at my tailbone (or by butt crack, sorry for the blunt words), as I was bent over a table with my knees resting on a step...it wasn't uncomfortable or embarassing, proably because I have given birth twice so I'm a little over getting upset about people looking at "private" places.

She talked to me about what she thought she would do at that point which was to cut it open and try to extract the follicles causing problems. Her assistant gave me the local shot to numb the area which was pretty uncomfy but not too bad. Then she began to cut which was the most disgusting sound I've ever heard, I asked her assistant to talk to me so I wouldn't focus on the sound. She was done extracting what she needed to get out within about 25 minutes and I was sewn up as well. She thought that in my case a closed woulnd healing had a good chance because the cyst was not flared up at the time of the operation. She explained that there is a risk of infection but to follow her instructions, monitor the wound and that you know the worst that would happen is that they would have to open it up to let it heal, so might as well try to get it to heal closed. I WAS SO GLAD FOR THAT> I spent a few days pretty out of it, by choice, because I wanted to stay ahead of the pain so I took my meds faithfully. I was driving not that long after and back to normal fairly soon. I HAVE NO SCAR THAT IS VISIBLE.

She did an amazing job and while sometimes the area is still a little tender and bumpy from healing, I feel great. I feel like I have a life again and my immune system is recovering after battling constant infections for over a year. Thank you so much for all of your stories and support. I would say not to psych yourself out over the surgery, you never know, it might go better than you think. My heart goes out to those which chronic cysts even after surgery, I hope I don't have to face that, but I guess you never know. For now I am enjoying sitting again.


Date: May 10, 2007
 

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I am 20 year old Male that had been suffering from a Pilonidal Cyst for about 6 months now. I was finishing up my Freshman year in college when i noticed at first what seemed to be a lump near my tailbone, and then eventually, a pea sized pimple where the lump first was. In a matter of weeks, the cyst began draining into the back of my boxers and made it quite uncomfortable to walk/sit/exercise/etc. To manage the draining, i applied 4x4 inch band-aids to the wound as needed to control it. The band aids started with only being needed once a day, which quickly grew to twice a day, and so on.

Eventually i consulted a doctor who quickly told me that a surgery would be the only way to fix the problem (boy did that not go over well! i had never had surgery before - and i didnt want to recouperate over my summer). None the less, i was fed up with the daily care that the cyst required. It is now my second week of of summer, and i had the surgery. The surgery was a simple out-patient surgery (got there at 6 for pre-op, surgery started at 8, i was home by 10) As it turns out, i had 8 to 10 sinus's that ranged down my butt crack, so of course, i have about numerous stitches with 2 layers. (the wound isnt all that deep - but im sure it depends on your size) Im now days into recovery whith absolutely no problems what so ever. The pain is minimal/non-exostant but i was given Vicoden just incase. As it turns out, the doctor belives i had the sinus's since puberty/child age. However, The wound seems to be healing and the stitches come out in a week.

 ******CAUTUION- My biggest mistake in addressing this problem was reading too far into this surgery. the only people that post online about their surgeries are the people who had horrible experiences and reoccurances, dont scare your self with other people's stories...you have two options, Live with it, or fix it. I couldnt immagine living with it***** having all that said; Good luck to anyone with a pilonidal cyst, hope this story helps someone.


Date: May 08, 2007
 

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May 8, 2007 I had my first "flare up" less than a week before my wedding day, 26 years ago. I remember feeling like I had fallen on my tail bone and couldn't sit all of a sudden. I went home from work and stayed in bed for the rest of the week. I remember running a pretty good fever and knowing the honeymoon wasn't going to happen, but the wedding was! On the Monday after the wedding I went to a doctor and was told that I had a Pilonidal Cyst and it had to be lanced and drained. They did it in the Doctor's office with NO pain meds at all. Needless to say the entire world heard me scream. After two weeks of antibiotics and a wick, I was told I was good enough for surgery. Back then they put you in the hospital for a week (1981) and I knew my husband was forever, he did all the packing etc for the entire healing process. I don't remember how long it took, but I believe it was a good 2 months before I could sit for long periods of time comfotably. It was left to heal from the inside out and was cauterized every couple of days.

No problems until about 3 years ago, started having "flare ups" every few months. I was totally in denial because I was told it would never come back! Last month I had had enough of the monthly flare ups and having it lanced and going on meds all the time. I go for my second surgery on Friday, May 11th. They tell me I can be back at work on Monday.....aint happening!!! I will shoot for Tuesday, but I guess I will play it by ear. I so do not want to go thru this again, but I am praying for another 20 years of no problems which will make it worth it. Thanks everyone for sharing your stories. It is amazing how few people know this "disease" exists. I guess if this doesn't work they are going to do the "flap" surgery as a last ditch effort. Wish me luck!


Date: May 06, 2007
 

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I'm a 22 yr.old from Florida. I got a cyst when I was 13. It was a very tramatic and painful year needless to say. I thought that I had pulled a muscle doing heavy lifting but the pain didn't go away and got steadily worse. I went to the doctor and they did x-rays and conclude that I had bruised my tailbone based on the way I described my pain. ( a sharp, shooting pain that went up my tailbone area) I couldn't stand up once sitting without horrible pain. I can't recall how long this went on. I later went on a trip with family to VA and on the way I remember being in a ton of pain and very out of it. I was very tired and nauseous as well. A few days after we arrived I had these red welts on both sides of my but crack and had to go to a doctor up there. All that was available was Physicians Assistant. That woman saved my life. She told us withing minutes what was going on and to go home immediately. We called my doctors back in FL and left that night. We arrived in FL the next day in the afternoon and went directly to the hospital. I had surgery the next day. The Surgeon drained and packed the wound. He told my family that had the cyst remained untreated any longer I would have died. He said it was filled with a remarkable amount of black poison.

On the 2nd day in the hospital the most arrogant doctor on the planet preceeded to show my parents how to pull out the packing by yank a foot of it out very quickly. I still remember the pain. That was some of the worst pain of my life. I cried for hours. I went home after 3 days with the intention to have a second surgery within the month. I HATED the whole packing process. I can still smell whatever they used to drench the packing. After the packing was out I had my second surgery within a week. My doctor told my parents I would be in and out within an hour. The surgery took 3 hours.They removed the entire cyst. They later told me the actual cyst was the size of a grapefruit. The doctor was amazed at the size and severity of my particular case. I had over 100 stiches on just the inside. Recovery took about a year. I have very little actual recollection of anything from that year. This has all been told to me except for the pain. I could never forget the pain. It took me years to get over the entire expierence. To this day I have little to no feeling in the crack and top of my butt. I get a twinge now and then. It scares the life right out of me. Thanks for reading my story. I'm very thankful for this site because I have not been able to tell my story to anyone who would understand.


Date: May 05, 2007
 

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I had a cyst for about 2 years and I'm sure its from being suddenly immobile as I have been constantly on a computer chair for studying. I'm sure this is probably very unsafe and dangerous, but I was so fed up one day with a flare up that I put hand sanitizer on the cyst and disinfected a needle used for sewing with the sanitizer. I punctured the cyst with the needle and made a verticle incision for the fluid to drain. I placed more sanitizer on the open wound to prevent any infections for the next 3 days (ouch). Results: I haven't experienced any problems for almost a year. Please do not try this; I'm surprised that I'm not suffering from a major infection right now. But, it worked!


Date: May 05, 2007
 

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Hi there, I wanted to give everyone an update. I had my surgery last July, here it is almost a year later, and I have never felt better. I had no problems with recovery, the wound is fully healed with no reoccurence. I highly recommend anyone to do the surgery, because you will be happy with the results.


Date: May 04, 2007
 

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This website is great, I can't wait to go home and show my roommate. About a month ago, he had begun complaining to me about his tailbone hurting, but he didn't remember falling on it or anything of that nature. Well he went out and bought a donut because it got to be too painful to sit on and he had no idea what to do. Well then it must have went away for a couple of weeks, then last week, he started talking about the pain again. He works at a pizza place as a delivery guy so that could be why he has gotten this. He didn't really tell me much about what exactly was wrong with him yet, but he went to the doctor on Monday and was prescribed antibiotics, and he said the Dr. offered to lance it, but my roommate didn't want that route, so he just got antibiotics and then the doc tried to drain/culture it a little which made pus come out of course. I have a feeling that this won't be the end of his cyst, I don't think he or the doctor knew what it was called but we'll see how this turns out. I can't wait to show him this site, it is very interesting to read and definitely opens my eyes up to keeping EVERY part of my body clean and neat haha.


Date: May 03, 2007
 

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I am a 23 year old female, I have been livingwith this since is was in the 11th grade( 2001.) The first time I had a flare up I was on vaction with my family in VT and Canada. We went a slide that is carved into the side of a mountain, and after I came down I really noticed that there was a pain. I thought that maybe is was just from the ride down. When I got home I put a heating pad on it and that helped a lot. For the next 3 days, still on vacation, about to enter my senior year, I was on bed rest with a heating pad in my backside. When I got back home, I went to the doctor, was told that is was a boil. I was freaking out. It still hadn't come to a head yet, so I still had to suffer. When it was finally time, I went to the ER, and the doctor began prepping me. I was crying so much, and the nurse was so calm. I was telling her that the doctor was hurting me, even after the anasteics, she reaction was that the doctor had to do his job, adn it would be over soon. My mom and grandmother were there, when they finally cut it, my grandmother said the pus just shot up in the air. The doctor said that it was the size of a pear under my skin, and I am not a big person. That is something that I will never forget. He packed it, and sent me home, perscription in hand. Thank God for sweatpants!!!

The second time, it was about 9 months later if that long, and I went through the whole thing again. This time, I was a little more prepared, but it still hurt. I inducted it again with the heating pad and/or hot washcloth. When I when to the doctor, a different one, he said with the fequency that they were coming that I might have to have surgury, if it came back again. He lanced and packed me up, and sent me home with percription in hand. And I thought I was free, now almost 6 years later, I am feeling a very familure feeling stemming from my backside, and i am freaking out, b/c this time unlike that last, I don't have insurance until the 1st of next month. But I know that I am not going to be able to wait that long. Its only the 3rd. I am trying to figure out how I am going to juggle work and recovery, hopefully, it will not take longer than week. *pray for me* I just want to add that I am sooooo grateful for this site, before I found it, I thought I was the only one going through these motions. Thanks and to everyone suffering with me, a wish a speedy and happy recovery.


Date: May 02, 2007
 

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Hi all. My name is Geoff and Im from Australia. I have had 3 pilonidal sinus operations and currently going though my 4th sinus breakdown which so far does not need surgery (daily to every second day needs to be dressed). It started when I was at University. 2001 - 20 years old. I would have a shower and notice I still stank. It was my flesh decaying literally. I had noticed when i had sat down for a while, it would be a numb pain. Not just for sitting down to long and i had to have a feel to see what was going on. I felt a lump which had a hole. I did not see any discharge on my undies but i thought something was not right. I had a web cam luckily and of course, pointed in that general direction and to my shock, a large black area down from my but crack which made me go to the doctor the next day. I do have black hair and lots of it. Grows back well.

That's when I had my first experience with Pilonidal sinus. Was very embarrassed at first. Was told I had to have an operation. I did and the surgeon had to take a piece out of me which had a ball of twine basically of my hair which decided to go down, not up. The body treats it as a foreign body and infection sets in. He had stiched me up. Next check up, the surgeon presses firmly on the operation site and blood and whatever else came gushing out. The surgeon goes oh shit, i go oh what, he is yelling for nurses and i stress. Basically the wound had made an airpocket in there which doesnt allow it to heal. Basically got Golden staff infection. 2nd operation had in 2002-21. Had to leave uni for this operation and this was the biggest operation I had. 2 & a half meters of gauze was used and the wound left open. Was getting close to my bowels which i was afraid of. It had taken a good 6 months to heel. Dressings every day with salt baths. Sill studied 4 subjects externally.

 2003 - 3rd operation but cut out and stitched up in one go. Had a pipe up my butt, to drain blood etc. 6 months to heel properly and 12months of work. Very depressed at this stage. Just didnt know where my life was heading. Half way through 2004, was given the green light with diploma and degree in hand. I just wanted to work and prove myself because many people did not understand. Its just a hair? How does that affect you! Well it does. I now work fulltime but again, Pilonidal sinus rears it ugly head again. 2007 - 26 years old. Wound breaks down and hairs are removed from this cavity. A lot closer to my anus (opening). Since Christmas, 2006-7 and still having polywick as a dressing, polymem as an absorbant layer with tape to hold down. Would be nice to know when it will all end but if anything I have learnt to be patient. Good luck everyone

 
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