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Stories from June 1, 2002 to July 31, 2002 |
- Date:
- July 31, 2002
Story
Hi my name is Branden, and I would like to first of all thank the
creator of this site. I will be going in for the third "open
healing" sugery any time now. You can call me a veteran of this
issue. It has been almost a year since the last surgery. Currently I
have a cyst about the size of a golf ball. I have learned how to
deal with the pain over the past few years. The only thing to seem
to work is an eight day stay in the hospital, and for that matter it
only works for a year.
- Date:
- July 29, 2002
Story
To Kathy, the person that just posted on July 26 (or whichever
date it was!)... don't be fooled by your doc when he says that the
'cyst is gone' and he only lanced it. The cyst lining/cavity still
remains. However, if this lancing helps and the thing doesn't bother
you again, then you could put off having surgery. This is 'exactly'
what gets me riled about a lot of these doctors: Telling their
patients only 'part' of the facts. I had the same thing, so you're
not alone. I must've had a lancing cause there was no way one of my
former doctors could've removed a sinus and a cyst cavity in his
office with only using Lidocaine..; I, too, was told, "It shouldn't
come back," thus giving me a false hope. The main thing about
pilonidal cysts is that lancings do NOT remove the cyst cavity,
which is the 'culprit' in these things. Good luck in whatever you
decide in the future, but I wanted to give a friendly reminder about
the fact/vs. fiction on the pilonidal cyst front...
- Date:
- July 26, 2002
Story
Hi -- I just wanted to share what I've been going through as
well. On Memorial Day I noticed that I was starting to get a big
lump on the end of my tailbone. It didn't really hurt the first day,
so I ignored it. By the end of the second day, it was very painful
and on the third day I was running a fever of 101 and couldn't even
tolerate sitting or laying on my back. It was excrusiating pain. So,
I called my doctor and she had me come and said that it was an
infected cyst and gave me a shot and scheduled an appointment with a
general surgeon for the following week. She said that the
antibiotics would reduce the swelling, but if it wasn't better by
the end of the weekend to call her back. So, after 3 more days of
suffering, I called back because it had only gotten worse and I
could barely move without being in so much pain! She made an
appointment for me with the surgeon for the very next day. My fiance
took me and the surgeon knew right away that it was a pilonidal cyst
and said he couldn't believe my doctor didn't send me right over the
first time I went to see her. At this point, the swelling was so bad
that it almost looked like I had a tiny tail. He said he needed to
lance it immediately. It was horrible. They only gave me several
local pain shots -- which were terribly painful themselves and they
didn't really help much either. Then he cut a 3 inch slit in the
area and cleaned out the infection. It was just awful. I don't want
to scare anyone, but I think you should know that it is extremely
painful. It took about 10 to 15 minutes and then they packed it with
gauze and taught my fiance how to change it. He said we should
change it two times a day using a "wet" packing method - he always
got the gauze damp with saline before putting it in. It was painful
at first, but the drugs helped. Then in the middle part of healing,
it didn't hurt too much anymore to do the dressing changes. Now I'm
almost at the end. The hole is too small to pack anymore. We had
been using Nu Gauze and a sterile Q-tip because of how tiny it is.
It started out the size of a raquet ball (no kidding!) and now it's
only 1/2 an inch deep and no bigger than the stick part of a Q-tip.
I talked to the nurse today and she said we could stop packing it
and switch over to dry dressing -- just on top. Thank God because
the twice daily packing has irritated the top of my would so much
that it is again extremely painful. It's only from irritation
though, not from any infection coming back. I'm just relieved that
the packing is over. My surgeon also said that he believes we won't
have to actually have surgery to remove the cyst - he believes it
has left on its own, which I hope to God is true. I don't believe I
have the strength to go through this another time. Again, I don't
mean to scare anyone -- and it's definitely better that it's gone,
but just know it's a long healing process and it does take patience
and care. -Kathy
- Date:
- July 25, 2002
Story
Hey everyone. I first found out about my cyst when I was 12 (I'm
15 now!) Anyway I had this pain on my butt for a while and since it
was in an embarassing spot I was too scared to tell my mom about it.
Finally one day I did and when I went to the doctor he said that I
would probably need surgery. Well I had my first surgery when I was
13. It went alright for a while and then it didn't heal right. So
then I had my second surgery when I was about 14. that one didn't
heal up right either. Well after my third surgery which I had this
past Christmas, I am feeling pretty good. It is almost all the way
healed up. I've had some problems since the third surgery but we are
now fixing them! I'm having it cauterized on August 6th which should
help it finish up healing all the way. There is only one little hole
there. I just want to say that if you do have don't be embarassed
about it and tell someone, it can only get worse. Plus if you have
had a surgery or two b/4 don't give up hope. I haven't!!!
- Date:
- July 24, 2002
Story
Hi, my name is Sarah, im on the discussion board as purplelava.
Well, here goes my story. In Januaury of 2002 I started bleeding and
having pain around my tailbone. I could feel nothing there and I
could see nothing there. Being 20, somewhat young, I was embarrassed
to tell my doctor about this problem. I only told my bestfriend and
she kept telling me I needed to tell my doctor. I should have
listened. Finally sometime in late May I was in so much pain that I
went to the emergency room. The doctor told me I had draining
pilonidal sinuses and needed to see a surgeon as soon as possible.
So I went to a gastroenterologist surgeon and he scheduled surgery
for the begining of June. But after talking to my regular MD and
doing a lot of researching, we decided It would be best for me to
have a closed surgical site. So my MD sent me to a plastic surgeon
who said a flap procedure would be best for me. On July 12th I went
to the hospital and had surgery. The only complication was with the
anesthesia. I didnt wake up until 2 1/2 hours after the surgery. So
they had to keep me on the respirator, which was not pleasant once I
woke up. Anyway,everything went well and I stayed in the hospital
untill the next evening. Then I went home with my pain pills. Right
away that night I was in a lot of pain and I was bleeding on
everything. My bandages were soaked within minutes of replacing
them. But I didnt call my surgeon, just figured this was normal. By
the 18th which was my followup appointment, I was in so much pain
that I could barely get off the couch. Sitting was not an option and
everything I have was covered in blood. So I saw my surgeon the
morning of the 18th, and right away he admitted me to the hospital
and scheduled emergency surgery for that night. It turned out that
the entire empty wound, which was down to the bone, but not too
long, had developed into an abcess. So my surgeon had to carefully
cut that out and all remaining tissue around it, then packed the
hole and left it open with one stitch in the middle holding it
somewhat together. That went well and I was on IV antibiotics and a
morphine pump machine for the next 5 days. I finally was discharged
today, and im already feeling so much better. I have to go to the
hospital every morning for physical therapy in the whirlpool to
cleanse the wound and then they re-pack it. Then a home healthcare
nurse comes to my house every night to repack it again. My surgeon
sent me home with a bottle of Lortab, a bottle of Vioxx, and a
Bottle of Darvocet, with one refill on each of them. So we've
definetly got the pain issue delt with =) The only part I hate about
this now is that im not allowed to shower or take baths until the
wound is closed and treatment for it is over. My daily whirlpool
treatment is supposed to be my bath, and I have to wash my hair in
the sink. So im not very pleased about that. Other than that, im
drugged, pain free, and happy. Anyway, if anyone is thinking about
having a closed wound, I would really hope you think about it over
and over again. The open healing is really the best method. My
doctor told me I would have been dead within 3 days if I hadnt had
that follow up appointment and gotten things taken care of. It's
pretty scary when a simple operation almost takes your life. So go
for the safest surgery. Sorry this is enormously long, but once I
get going, I don't shut up. I want to thank the creator of this
site, it has been so helpfull, and so have all the people. So thank
you and good luck to everyone!!! ~Sarah~
- Date:
- July 22, 2002
Story
hi everyone, first of all thanks for the great site here, nice to
see i'm not the only one with this. first noticed mine about 8 or 9
years ago as a swollen sore spot on the tail bone, was concerned but
just thought i had bumped it somehow. well as u all know it just
dosnt go away like i thought it would. It started to drain in
february of 01, went to the doctor and was told to see a surgeon, i
did see hin if june of 2001, i thought we would just remove it then
and there. Man was i surprised when he told me what it was and the
process it would take. Well i let it go and didn't go back for
surgery, lived with sticking tissues in my briefs every morning
after my shower for the drainage. On memorial weekend of 2002 did it
ever flare up with infection. Enough is enough i said, couldn't
stand it anymore called for a apt. had it lanced with no numbing
shot.....ouch. Had my surgery on july 11 of 2002. today if july 22
2002. Am sick of packing and not sitting but if it heals properly it
is worth it. Just wonder how long i have to pack and bandage it? Doc
says being thin is a advantage for me ....i hope so... I had never
heard of a pilonidal cyst before this, i felt like i was the lone
ranger having this no one seemed to of ever heard of it..Glad i
found this site i pray evryone heals well will get back and update
of the healing man do i hope i don't have a re-occurance of this .
good luck everyone....tx for the great site. curt
- Date:
- July 22, 2002
Story
Hi, everyone. As a 25-year old, very hygienic female who was very
embarassed when my problem emerged, I have to thank the author of
this site and all others who have contributed their experiences for
helping me feel much more comfortable in seeking treatment and
realizing that this is NOT a "dirty" disease or uncommon occurrence.
Noone in my family has a history of Pilonidal, but my doctor felt
that my having had broken my tailbone in a car accident in 1995 may
have had something to do with my developing the cyst. It first
appeared about a year and a half ago - a small lump that I thought
was just my tailbone swelling or bruising from doing too many ab
excercises on the floor. About 3 months later, it actually became
open at the surface level of my skin. I lived with it for almost a
year afterwards since the pain and discomfort was mostly minor. I
decided to do something about it about a month ago, realizing that I
do NOT want to live my life constantly worried about my clothes
staining, not being able to do floor excercises, and worried about
what a potential partner might think of this absess. My surgery took
place this past Thursday, July 19th. I had an "Excision with Primary
Closure" performed - basically, my wound has been stitched closed,
but a drain has been left in for a few days (maximum of 10) to
minimize the risk of infection and to ensure that the fluid leaves
my body as opposed to staying in and creating an infection. Aside
from some discomfort and the inconvenience of having a small drain
taped to my leg, I have had a great experience with this. No surgery
is "fun" or attractive, but these minor inconveniences for two weeks
beat a lifetime of infections and worry - at least for me. Also, by
the time I start grad school in late August, I'll be completely
healed and will no longer have to feel uncomfortable in hard chairs
or in movie theatres. God willing, my healing will continue quickly
and safely, and I'll have a normal, healthy life back very shortly.
I recommend this to anyone who has this problem. I know it's a
cliche, but seriously: better out than in.
- Date:
- July 21, 2002
Story
Hello, I am grateful for this site. It is my second time visiting
and I plan on coming back to briefly tell my story. I did want to
say that in my case, it is congenital. I am a 25 year old female who
has had problems in the tailbone area for years. My mother had the
same disease at my age and finally had to have surgery to remove the
entire cyst. Only last year, one year ago, did my tailbone
tenderness manifest itself into an actual Pilonidal cyst. One year
ago, it is back and the most painful thing I have ever experienced.
Although many cases are not congenital, some are like mine. It is
nice to have a place to come to read about other's stories with
Pilonidal Disease. And, it is embarrasing to tell to others because
for us, it is not something we eagerly want to describe in detail! I
couldn't believe the medical journals who still list this as the
"Hairy-man butt disease"! Whitney
- Date:
- July 13, 2002
Story
i just wanted to say that maybe some of you who are complaining
about relaps and pain are bringing it on yourself. you arent
supposed to do any activity much beyond laying on your side in bed.
playing a sport a week after surgery with an open wound is like
sticking your hand into the wound and pushing as hard as you can. i
would not recommend going back to work 2 or 3 days after surgery.
- Date:
- July 13, 2002
Story
I had my first exposure to the cyst 7 years ago. I woke up one
morning with an uncomfortable lump, which in 3 days had swelled so
much, walking became almost excruciating impossible. After the
surgeon lanced and packed the cyst, it went into remission, even
though the surgeon warned me that I should have it immediately
removed...but what could he possibly know. One year went by, 2 years
turned into 3.... 2 months ago while working out on a bench press, I
mistakenly "rolled" back to begin my next set. I heard a crunch,
felt a crunch and soon felt a warm feeling down there. Within 3
days, my cyst have re-emerged with the same vigor as before. My
Primary care physician refused to treat it (treating means actually
doing something, not writing a prescription) ands referred me to a
surgeon...6 DAYS LATER!!! 2 days after taking my antibiotics, I felt
a easing of the pain, which was every signal to me that the worst
was over. Unfortunately I experienced what many girls experince at
puberty. WHILE AT WORK...my female coworkers noticed red on my back
side, "like blood or something" one of them remarked. As I rushed to
the bathroom, I found my underwear full of this smelling pink fluid.
After throwing my underwear away, cleaning up (as best I could), I
went home and stayed there until I saw the surgeon. The surgeon,
cleaned up the area and immediately scheduled a surgery date (thanks
for asking doc!). And as is common with doctors who carry knives, he
placed this large bandage (which was more tape than bandage) on my
tail, absolutely clueless as to the painful waxing that awaited me
the next day! Now, in no means am I a gorilla, but, in no means am I
a beachball either... SO, on June 17, I had my surgery, and to
alleviate the concerns of anyone reading this..it was so smooth,
that I dont remember a dam thing, except I convinced a spanish
speaking nurse that I deserved a sandwich for being well behaved.
Day two. Not too much pain. Felt ok...thought it would be a piece of
cake and I might be able to play basketball again the next sunday.
Doctors post surgical directions were atrocious. I had to have my
sister-in-law, a nurse, clean my dressing and repack. Day three.
Went back to work. Big mistake! Got very little done. Felt clumsy
from the vicaden. Cleaned external dressing myself in the bathroom.
I still felt basketball was very possible on Sunday. Day four. Felt
very good. Not tremendously painful, yet I didn't feel all drugged
up. BUT even with dressing changes, a co-worker (the same one that
pointed out my bloody mess earlier) now was pointing out a leak
spot. I raced overto my sister-in laws house. She completely
redressed me (excuse the puns) and repacked. I felt pretty good. Day
five. More pain...I was worried about infection. My sister in law,
changed the dressing again and she says my wound looks very
clean...but why the pain? Day six. Even more pain. Sitting is almost
impossible, Only laying down is comfortable. Thank god its
Saturday...I cant do anything. Day seven. WORSE! I pulled out all
the packing...that releived some of the pressure. The only way to
describe the pain is as if the cyst was full blown. I have a hole in
my back (that's what I tell prople at work..never my butt) yet it
feels like the cyst is there. BTW..no basketball. I saw the surgeon
the next day for post op. I told him I was in a lot of pain. He
replied it was normal...HUH? He poked and prodded..said my wound was
healing nicely and I was not infected...then why the pain? His
expaination did not satisfy me and I wont bore you. He then spayed
some AgNO3 (Silver Nitrate). What the ****! Why dont you just spray
gasoline and light a match! So here I am. I refuse to put in any
more packing...it hurts too much. I now just use a gauze pad and
wedge it between my butt cheeks...it holds itself up no problem.I
apply Hydrogen Peroxide every few hours...the fizz party I hear
reminds me of when as a kid I would open a can of 7-UP and put my
ear to the rim. The pain has lessened only slightly...and while I
type this letter from work..I yearn for my bed, a full 10 days after
surgery. I have read 2 terrrific novels in bed during that
time...but would enjoy to go walking or something just to get back
to normal. Would I do it again? Im not sure...if the cyst would only
relapse every 7 years...I think i can live with that. All I know is
if this thing EVER comes back...I will be pi$$ed off. I know people
who have healed faster from brain surgery...regardless, I'm glad I
was able to vent a bit. Nothing personal, but I hope I never have to
come back to this page again! Thanks for listening Nick
- Date:
- July 13, 2002
Story
i am 18 years old. i had my cyst for a couple of years. i don't
really know when it first showed up. i had my surgery on july 11. it
was my first surgery. the most painfull part of the surgery is when
they put the iv in. when i got home my mom told me the doctor had
removed a section of my tailbone. it had apparently formed into the
shape of a hook. the day after the sergery wasn't too bad either. a
sore throught and my hipps are sorrer than my open wound is. the
pain killers arent too bad however they where off about an hour
before you can take the next one. i will try to update my story in a
week or so.
- Date:
- July 02, 2002
Story
I have just had my first flare up two weeks ago. I wanted to DIE
all of you that have had a crippling, can't walk type of flare up
like I did know what I mean! It was worse than having both of my
kids. I landed in the ER getting mine lanced, and thankfully for my
step mom, she had them give me Morphine in my IV before they came in
there and started talking about scalpels. The only thing I really
remember about it was an intense burning and lots of pressure, then
stuff running down my rump. I also remember him saying, "Nurse
number 15 scalpel, please." Then two more shots of Morphine in my IV
and off we go! Home I went. Boy, little did I know, more pain to
come! The packing was the worst I left fingernail marks in the
leather on the bed in my doctor's office. It did get better
everytime I had it unpacked and repacked. I am getting surgey. My
aunt had it done 30 years ago, open wound method, and my mom packed
her wound for her. She said it was as big as a fist! But, it healed
in 3 months completely, and has NEVER come back!! And get this, I am
using the SAME surgeon. He is good.
- Date:
- July 02, 2002
Story
Hi there to all fellow-sufferers ; I wrote my story on 27 June
2002, from Athens, Greece. I would just like to reply to the latest
addition to the stories, from July 1, to the 30-yr. old female, who
gave her experience of living with pilo cyst for a long time..: I
fully understand your anxiety about surgery, packing, open wounds,
pain, etc; if you read my story, you will understand what I'm
talking about... BUT...Living with the cyst and learning to deal
with it, is NOT really an option people should go for, according to
my humble opinion. By definition, a cyst is a foreign body inside of
you, an infection really, which although does not affect your
everyday operations, is not part of your body structure; living with
a cyst, is like saying that when you realise you have a bad tooth,
you keep taking pain-killers, bec. you r afraid to go to the dentist
!!! If you consult your doctor, or any doctor, you will find out,
that there are several benefits from getting rid of the infectious
cyst, as sono as you discover it (the inconvenience of draining, is
a minor one). Don't worry about the horror stories you've heard
about the open-wound method...trust me - I can't stand pain myself,
either and already I am on my 4th week of healing - my experience ?
: Just discomfort.... Much better, than carrying a cyst full of
puss,hair and other debris inside your body, for the rest of your
life, which could affect you long-term...No thanks..!
- Date:
- July 01, 2002
Story
Hi all. I'm a female in my 30's, and my story's a little
different than the surgery stories. It's more about how I live with
my Pilonidal Cyst, and have been living with it for almost 20 years.
Many people out there with this "inconvenience" seriously do not
want to have surgery, and I was one of them. Now, I don't feel I
need surgery because I've learned to manage my cyst. Don't get me
wrong. We're all different, and I'm glad surgery has worked out for
many of you. But for those who definitely do NOT want to go through
surgery and recovery - pain, packing (that really creeps me out),
and weeks/months of "recovery", and for those who feel that they
shouldn't have to, I want you to know that keeping your cyst doesnt
mean it will rule or destroy your life. Your body is yours. You can
get to know your body and your cyst - watch it, accept it, deal with
it as and when it happens, anticipate its return, and even avoid
some flare-ups. I've had countless flare-ups. Many were quite
painful and a few were even embarrassing. For the 20 years I've had
my cyst, I'd say approximately 90% of the inflammations I've had
came and went in a day, filling, opening, draining slowly (sometimes
a little "push" on an unopened cyst will allow it to pop and drain),
and be practically all gone by the next morning. The other 10% were
flare-ups that stuck around for a couple/few days and were a little
more painful, a little more stubborn - meaning I would have to lean
to the side when I sat and they didn't drain when I wanted them to.
When this was all new to me, I thought it was the worst, most
disgusting thing about my body. I hated it and I was wondering when
it would recur. When I chose to learn to live with it, my whole
attitude changed. Living with it now is not hard at all. I've never
had a lancing, although I am sure I "needed to" in the opinions of
many, based on some stories I've read. I've gotten to know mine and
if they're not draining when they should, I do a little "self-help"
work back there. NO, I don't cut it. That's not a good idea. Don't
ever self-lance! But if you push at it a little, it'll find its way
out the sinus and probably drain down your crack. Take it easy at
first. But, you know, things you do to yourself are not even half as
painful as things others do to you (lancing, packing, etc.) I stand
in front of the mirror and "work it" for a few minutes, maybe after
a tub soak, and it always opens for me. I massage it as it drains,
absorbing pus and blood in a tissue. When it seems to be "finished",
I wash up in the shower and slide a small strip of sterile gauze
between my crack and over my cyst - sometimes I put antibacterial
ointment on it (purchase that in any drug store - it comes in a
tube), and it heals on its own. Like I said, usually by the next
morning it's not giving me any problems. Doing this speeds things up
and it's over and done with until next time. If I didn't do the
"push", my cyst would stick around and "grow" for days and could get
big and uncomfortable. If I feel one coming on but it's not painful
and not ready to want to drain yet, I put an big of gauze back there
in case I miss my opportunity and it opens itself. That's not a big
deal. Doing these things is by FAR much better (to me) than surgery,
giant open wounds, packing and repacking (ick!), pain and discomfort
for weeks and months. Plus, it could recur anyway. A day of
discomfort and self-treatment, for me, has been easy to deal with
and I just don't really notice it anymore. It's me, and it's easy
now. Thanks for listening. Best of luck to you all! lancing a day or
two
- Date:
- July 01, 2002
Story
Success story to add to this forum in case anyone is interested.
My husband first noticed that I had a "dimple" many years ago. I do
not know if this condition was aggravated by an accident, but in
January of about 1996 my husband and I had a sled accident where I
came down on my tailbone on the front metal part of the sled. In
November of 1998 or so, I ended up at a hospital emergency room
because I had 2 cysts (or 1 that had "traveled"). At that point,
their advice was to (quote) "have it removed". As mine were not
giving me pain (that I hear so many talk about), I just ignored it
until I saw a dermatologist about 6 months later...same answer from
him. About that point, the huge remaining cyst had started to
periodically drain (or explode, as I called it)and bleed profusely,
two times I had to leave work and buy clothes because it had bled so
much! At that point, again, with little pain, it had become such a
pain in the neck that I decided to see someone. Fortunately one of
our local surgeons happens to be a colo/rectal surgeon as well, and
when I saw him I was more than surprised when he said the word
"surgery". I had no idea it could be that serious and imagined
removal taking place in his office. We scheduled outpatient surgery
for May of 2000. To make a long story shorter, I had the surgery,
where he completely stitched me shut, having basically had
reconstruction of a new "butt crack". His idea of closing the wound
was that it was much less painful that way. After the stitches were
removed, my very patient husband was to swab and disinfect the area
twice a day and change my dressings. It healed well, with very
little to no pain, with the exception of a small spot which FINALLY
completely closed in about October of 2002. I am still seeing him
for follow-up visits, but at this point everything looks very good
and I am hoping for no more outbreaks. I hope this story helps
someone make a decision as I could not imagine living with the
drainage and unpredictability of the sudden problems that it caused
me.
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- Date:
- June 29, 2002
StoryHi Everyone,
I am a 26 yr old male, and the problem that we have all faced first presented itself to me about 3 1/2 months ago.
I felt the Pain in my tailbone area, and after a couple days I noticed a lump. As days went by, the lump grew and grew and the pain grew and grew.
Finally one night, something happened. I was awaken from my sleep with a sharp pain. I reached my had back to the area, and it was covered in blood and puss.
I Drove myself to the ER, where they explained to me I had a Pilonidal cyst and it had ruptured. They basically told me to let it keep draining and see a surgeon.
Well.. I let it drain, but i didn't see a surgeon. Now... it is back. Over the past couple days it has been growing in size and has been becoming more and more painful.
It is now Friday, and I plan on calling a Surgeon Monday.
Wish me Luck, because to be honest.. it is scary and something I am not looking forward to.
- Date:
- June 27, 2002
StoryHi there to all of you, from Athens, Greece.
My name is Spyros, I am a 31 year old male (typical specimen for a pilonidal cyst sufferer). Today is my first day at work, after a full cyst excision, by open method, after 23 "difficult" (not intolerable)days. I am writing to all of you, who, like myself, have discovered a little, sore bump on your tailbone some time ago and have heard all the horror stories, from people who have been operated, in one way, or the other and don't know what to do. RELAX !!! Having discovered a pilonidal cyst, is not the end of the world and deciding to have it operated, does not mean signing up for 4 weeks of medieval torture.
This was my 2nd time on the operating table, so if you think that you are in a tight spot, think again. I had the first operation, in a private clinic 4 years ago, by the closed method, with stiches. At that time, my doctor assured me that this was the safest, quickest and less painful method and that that would be the end of my troubles, as far as my tailbone was concerned. True, it only took me around 10 days to sit properly, there was no significant pain involved and the removal of the stiches was a piece of cake. What my doctor did NOT tell me,was that the stich-up method is 3 times more likely to get infected again !!!
About a year after my 1st operation, I began noticing a reddish bump on my tailbone again and shortly afterwards, it began oozing... I cursed the moment I decided to have the closed-up method, because although I did not want to admit it, I knew that sooner, or later, I would be visiting a surgeon, once again ( definately, not the same one )!!
After a couple of visits to surgeons, to clean it up(open it up and let it drain), it was made clear to me, that surgery was the only option open to me. My new doctor discussed with me extensivelly, the pros and cons of the open method; Yes, it would be SLIGHTLY more DISCOMFORTING (not painful), in relation to the stiched-up option;YES,it would take longer to heal completely, BUT the open method is 3 times safer, than any other one and with only 5% chance of recurrence (medically, this is a very low %)....By letting it heal from the bottom up and washing out any debri on a daily basis, the chance of infection, is pretty slim!!! I knew that although, like all of you, I tried to avoid subjecting myself to any pain whatsoever, this was the only option open to me, if I didn't want to find myself on an operating table for a 3rd time.
I went into hospital on 3rd June and the next morning I was scheduled to be operated upon. The anaisthesiologist visited me the night before to talk about the kind of anaisthesia I would be receiving;I went for the total anaisthesia, in order to avoid feeling anything;I was assured it was the safest.
The morning of the operation I was shaved locally and was wheeled into the operating theater, where I was anaisthetized by injection;the feeling was quite pleasant, to tell you the truth, since I became drouzy straight away;next thing I remenber, I was in my hospital room feeling very sleepy, with my girlfriend telling me it was all over !!! After 1 hour in total... I stayed in hospital for 2 days, in order to make sure the wound did not bleed excessively and also I think, because private clinics have to make a living, don't they..??
Before leaving, my doctor came to change my dressings for the 1st time; this was the part I dredded and the bit that all of you who are thinking of having the operation, probably worry about the most, right???!! DON'T...!! I am not that tolerant of pain I can tell you, but the feeling is NOT one of utter sufferring....it is uncomfortable, yes, but if your doctor is a true professional and cares about his/her patients, he/she will make sure to change your dressings as carefully as possible, in order to avoid pain; don't forget we are talking of a fairly large open wound, which is impossible not to hurt at all....
The first 10 days are the difficult ones....this is when your wound is fresh and begins to heal, so its the most uncomfortable stage;my case was even worse, because I had an operation upon the scarred tissue of my 1st operation, which troubled me considerably for 2-3 days, but this was an exception, not applying to "first-timers".!! After 10 days, the first stage of healing is complete;your wound will still be deep, but the bottom layer will have healed and it will not feel as sore; I started "packing" it myself, on my doctor's instructions. Although it seems quite shocking the first time, soon I got the hang of it and by the 5th-6th time I can literally do it with my eyes closed ( it makes no differrence really, since I cannot see my ass anyway)..After 20 days I sometimes forget the wound is there, although it is still very much there!!!! I am now on my 23rd day of healing and my visits to my surgeon are once a week; he scrapes the wound slightly, (it only takes 5 min.),in order to stimulate the tissue and accelerate the healing process; it is a bit discomforting, but nothing unbearable - I drive myself to and from the doctor.
The wound is healind beautifully and the worst part is over...I am really happy I did this and I haven't regretted it a bit, because I know it is over...!!!! Just remember a few pointers I think are useful :
1. Don't think about it ! Decide and go do it!! The longer you wait, the longer you will postpone it....
2. Find a surgeon you trust and feel comfortable with.Talk and ask as many questions as you want to find out about the pre and post op details.
3. Have an open-wound surgery !! Dont be fooled by the no-pain trick of the stiches method;it will be easier short term, but with a 70% chance of recurrence;the choice is yours!
4.There is NO REAL PAIN INVOLVED !!There is only discomfort and the hussle of changing your wound gauges every day.
5. Shower twice/day at least!! Use the jet from your shower, to wash out the wound - IT DOESN'T HURT AT ALL!! The cleaner the wound, the better the healing !!!
6. Buy an adequate supply of surgical gloves, gauges and adult pampers (great help), in order to avoid staining your underware and trousers ( the wound does drain continuously)...
7. Most painkillers will keep pain away and help you sleep well at night.
8. Always shower after using the toilet for #2, especially for washing out any debri from the wound.
9. If you have the chance to swim in the sea, do so!!!It might sting a bit, but it;s very good for your would healing.
10. Dont worry !!! It will be over before you realise it !!
Thanks so much to the providers of this site for providing support to so many others,like myself, who were thinking of the operation and are now writing about it....
For any qu's, mail me at s.raptakis@telestet.gr
Good luck
Spyros
- Date:
- June 21, 2002
StoryToday I had a cyst removed and luckily the wound was sutured up instead of being packed. I strongly suggest that the you tell someone as soon as you discover the problem- I told my mom about 4 days after i discovered my first one and had surgery a week and a half later and that is probably why i am having such good recovery- i have only taken two tylonel about 8 hours ago and can hardly feel a thing. in less then a week i am having some of the stitches removed. this is a ton better than living with this condition for a long time. in just a few weeks, i will be totally healed and rid of this problem. i am so thankful!
- Date:
- June 20, 2002
StoryHi, I'd first like to say that this site has been more than helpful for me as far coping with this problem goes. I first noticed my cyst back in Dec. of late 2001. I thought I had bruised my tailbone somehow but couldn't figure out how. The only real discomfort at first was just having a horrible time sleeping on my back. After a couple of months I noticed that the site of the bruise began to leak a pussy substance and the pain in my lower back began to worsen. I went on with this for about a month when I began to research the problem. After talking to friends and family I self diagnosed myself w/ having a Pilonidal Cyst. Then in May the cyst got to the point where it became intolerable. It was draining constantly and leaving stains in my boxers which I felt quite embarassed about. The pain was only minimal since it was always draining itself. I made an appt. to see a surgeon and sure enough it was a pilonidal cyst. I had the cyst removed on June 4th of 2002. The fist few days after the sugury the pain was quite minimal. I was given vicadin so that made things better. one week after the surgury I was going to the bathroom and as I was wiping my butt I noticed that I was also wiping up a great deal of blood. I became quite alarmed as I could tell this was not right. the drip shotly turned in to a slow stream of blood and then I panicked. I shoved a huge wad of gauze up there and raced to the doctor. It turned out that a blood vessel had opended near the wound site. I must say that I have never seen this much blood in my life. My clothes were ruined and the bathroom floor looked like a murder seen. The doctor told me it was very uncommon for this to happen, but he put a stitch in it and have been fine since. After the first week the pain was minimal unless trying to lay on my back or sit. I am now entering my third week of the healing process and am no longer taking pain pills. I am able to sit down with very little discomfort. My walking pace has picked up as well. The only time I feel pain is when the packing is being changed and that is only minor. My Doc says that the wound is looking fantastic and he gives it an A+. I have been changing the site 2 times a day. So far so good. I hope to return to you all with good news. For the rest of you suffering good luck to you all and God Bless!
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- Date:
- June 19, 2002
StoryI am a 32 year old male, and had surgery performed back when I was 23. I was warned even back then after my first encounter that the surgery was not the end all be all. Back then the infection was sooo bad that it looked like a hard ball was surgically implanted under my skin in the cleft of my ass. Last year at this time, I had to undergo surgery for a relapse. This surgeon was much better, and there is a difference of someone who is experienced with this procedure, and someone new to it. MAKE SURE YOU ASK if they have done this before. And ask to speak to a patient they worked on, don't be emabarassed. Well one year later and I was on vacation... Well, another flare up, not as bad as the last 2. I can tell you, that I will probably undergo this suregery the rest of my life. Outside of the waxing, I have tried to keep it clean, just on my own, I clean the area as the last area to clean. My suggestion, is lose weight, I have gained weight, and now have been suffering with it more. The extra weight puts on extra pressure, and inflames the tissue even more. Good luck to you all, I know how bad it feels.
- Date:
- June 19, 2002
StoryWell, my name is Danielle and I had my surgery 5 1/2 years ago and was so relieved. However, today I wake up and guess what---I am having the same pain all over again. Come to find out. Just because you have had surgery the likelihood of getting this again is very high. I have called my doctor again because I can barely sit down. I have been crying all day. I rather give birth again (several times at that) than to experience surgery, not too mention recovery all over again. Now, with two children---it won't be that easy. I hope none of you ever have to experience this again---but the possibility is
definitely there.
- Date:
- June 18, 2002
StoryI am a 40-year old female and have had problems with my pilonidal cyst since my early teens. The condition seems to run in our family, as my mother, sister, and brother all have had pilonidal cyst problems. My mother has had hers lanced three times (the last time over 35 years ago) and has not had any problems since. Neither of my siblings have had theirs treated.
My condition began as an uncomfortable hard spot on my backside, sometimes draining, sometimes not. I had difficulty with any activities that put pressure on that spot, especially things like sit-ups and horseback riding. The situation was painful but bearable until about six years ago, following a three-day marathon session in front of the computer trying to finish a report for work. At that time, my cyst swelled enormously, causing me terrific pain. Of course, this happened at the beginning of a three-day weekend and the urgent care physician I visited refused to lance it. He sent me home with Vicodan and instructions to take hot baths until it "fluxated" (became liquid). After an agonizing three days, I saw my regular doctor who immediately sent me to a surgeon. By that time, the cyst had begun to drain on its own and I can tell you I've never been so grateful! The surgeon lanced the cyst, bandaged me with enough gauze to swaddle a good-sized baby, and I felt great. Until the next time, two years later . . .
Fast-forwarding through time, I had frequent minor flare-ups over the next four years, with my cyst becoming severely inflamed two more times. The last time, this February, the infection was not only painful, but also made me physically ill--sweats, nausea, shakes--so I finally decided to heed my surgeon's advice and have the exicisional surgery.
The surgery took place on April 5 at the same-day surgery center of our local hospital. I had never had general anesthesia, so was a bit nervous, but my fears proved groundless. I had possibly THE best surgical experience anyone could hope for. Everyone was kind (butt jokes included!), the surgery went quickly, and I slept most of the day after I returned home. The next day I was up and about, wanting to be productive. I had to be creative about finding tasks I could do standing up (washing windows and vacuuming seemed to be the chores of choice!) and I longed for a bath, but other than that I felt great. I had a closed procedure and my stitches came out after 10 days. Fortunately, my incision did not become infected (as sometimes happens with the closed procedure) and other than the fact that one small area of my healing incision broke open a couple of times in the first month, my recovery went very well. In fact, I just returned from a cross-country airplane trip and not even the 10 hours each way on a plane and in airports caused me any problems. (For those of you who battle with this, you know what that amount of sitting could potentially do to a cyst!)
Long story short, I am now ten weeks post-surgery, am completely satisfied with my surgery, and only wish that I had done it years earlier. Although my surgeon is not a colon and rectal surgeon, she had plenty of prior experience with pilonidal cyst surgery and did an outstanding job on me. I'm now looking forward to a life without the pain, the self-imposed restrictions on activity, and the fear of flare-ups. In addition, I hope now that I no longer have a constant low-grade infection coursing throughout my body, I'll regain the energy I once had. Surprise, surprise there IS life after pilonidal cysts!
- Date:
- June 17, 2002
StoryHi there. I'm a 25 year old male. I had my second pilonidal
cyst surgery 12 weeks ago and the wound still has not healed.
I'm at the end of my rope. I've pretty much resigned myself to
the fact that this is something I'm just going to have to deal
with for the rest of my life. I don't know what else to do. I've
followed every doctor's order. The cyst was excised and then
closed with a couple of sutures. I was told I would have a
healing process of anywhere from 8-10 weeks. I have little pain,
but for the last 12 weeks I've got gauze taped to my backside. I
can't stand it! Does anybody have any advice? I'm quickly losing
hope that it will ever go away. I had the second surgery because
the surgery 2 years previous never healed either. Sometimes I
forget about what life was like without one, or I stop imagining
what life will be like without one. It's very difficult for me
to remain positive. I appreciate the positive stories on this
website. It offers hope to others.
- Date:
- June 16, 2002
Storysunday june whatever..just an update for ya..i swear i'm having something i would call { Empty-Missing muscle contraction spasm syndrome } had my surgery friday june 7 and since sunday june 9 when ever i move or sometimes just laying as best i can i have this spasm at the cut sight and it is so painful i want to scream when it occurs..it a uncontrolled contraction of some muscle in my buttocks that feels like something is being ripped from my talbone..like my doctor cut a main muscle in half..when changing packing it can occur a dozen times or more{ the light touch my wife uses can cause it if i do not know the touch is coming} so she has to touch me away from the wound then slide her touch to me as needed to the cut zone...i have to use a bite rag and wiggle my foot as the packing is being changed to help control this.. should i
call a lawyer or is this normal?
thanks brian b-man out for now
- Date:
- June 15, 2002
Storywe'll it's friday june 14 now..first week after surgery complete...first day wasn't bad, last 48 hours the worst..opening is still huge, those twice a day packing changes are not too bad compared to the constant throbing i feel. sleep most of day, woke up @ 8 pm an hour ago and felt good. but after being up and about for an hour it's starting to hurt pretty bad again.. time will tell, hope this ends this whole cyst thing..b-man out
- Date:
- June 14, 2002
StoryJune 16, 2002
I am a 38 y/o male and had my cyst removed on April 26th of this year. I have read some of the stories and would like to share mine as well. My surgeon is a colo-rectal surgeon and has done many procedures. The best way is for a primary closure with a JP drain. I spent one night in the hospital for pain control. I will admit the first week was pretty painfull. If I was lying on my side or stomach there was no pain or discomfort. The pain comes into play when you have to sit down or bend over to pick up something. After 3 days in went back to the doctors office to have the drain removed. That was probably the most painfull part of the whole procedure. After one week I had my stitches removed. Once that was done, about 1 1/2 inches of the incision came open and wasn't healed. That kind of bothered me a little. My doctor informed me that that area (right near the anus) is commmon to do that. What I had to do was keep a 2x2 gauze pad in the incision and change it often. The key to my healing was my doctors persitance on seeing me on follow up visits. Every 4 days I went to the office and he or his nurse would take a stick of Silver nitrate and clean the would of any granulation tissue that forms. The first few times this was done it stung quite a bit, but lessed each time. He states that this granulation tissue formation keeps the would from healing. It was also VERY IMPORTANT that he shave all the hair near the incision because any hair inside of it would prevent healing and could cause recurrence. One other tip that worked wonders for me was his recomendation of using a water pick on the incision. Sounds strange but a solution of 1/3 water, 1/2 hydrogen peroxide ands 1/3 betadine help the wound heal faster. I can tell you now that the wound is completly healed with no infection and I feel great. Sorry for the length of the story but I think it was all relevant.
- Date:
- June 14, 2002
StoryHi again, its me, the one who had surgery on the 3rd of june.. it is thursday night now, and my stitches come out tomorrow... still havent used any vicodin.. im in no pain unless i sit wrong.. so to all of you thinking about having the surgery, go for it, its quick, (relatively) painless and its worth it to be rid of the cyst once and for good.. if given an opertunity to do it again, i would... in fact to keep this cyst away, i'd
gladly do this once a year for the rest of my life (hopefully that
wont have to happen =)
- Date:
- June 14, 2002
StoryHi, My name is Nikki. I've had piloniday cyst since i was 14 and 21 years of age. At age 14 was my first flareup. They doctors told me to soak it in a hot bath with epson salts 2 times a day. I have to agree, It did work. it kept it away for 4 years. Then it began again. this time i did get surgery for it. they removed the cyst and i was so relieved to not be in as much pain. I was looking forward to returning to work and to start my life with out this painful desease. But from there it did go down hill... NOw it does flare up every month and the pain a greal deal! Every time i go to the doctor they give me other methods to try and clear it up! I've been to 10 different doctors and they will not help me or even tell me what i can do. I did have surgery for the second time just today.. I don't believe it will be much help but we will see if it works this time.
I hope all others have success stories with there fight! I don't wish this sort of problem on to anyone else!! I recommend kicking it in the butt before it gets out of hand and find your self an excellent doctor that will do all he can to help!
- Date:
- June 11, 2002
StoryWe'll i had it done. today is june 10 i think monday at least that i know..had my surgery friday june 7 @ southwest general in middleburg hts. ohio. so far so good i guess got a hole in my butt 2cm x 4cm x 6cm deep..doc told wife there was a hole colony of those pilodinal cysts down there..gonna be off a while from work, 6-8 weeks pending...doin the Vicodin every 3 hours and keeping track very carefully so i don't forget and die in agony at 4 am..lol the mass he took out was about the size of a small hardball..thats what i get for waiting 20= years to have it removed, it grew so don't wait is my opinion.. thanks for listening Brian out for now
- Date:
- June 09, 2002
Storyhi, its nick again. i had my cyst operated on 27 may, and i am almost recovered!!! the nurse can no longer get any packing in, so hopefully i can start living again. ive been told that it s taken so long because i got infected 3 times!! yes, 3 lots of antibiotics(not fun). mine was a weird one because ihad 2 holes that linked up to each other inside me, i am very impressed with the docters handiwork. i just would like to say that the whole experience was not too bad, the worst bit was the infection, it hurt like hell, but i am glad it eas done. if youre condsidering surgery, just do it, its better than the alternative. i gather a lot of you people on here live in the states, and i know they do things differntly here in england, so go for the one were they leave you with a huge hole in your arse, at the time its none toopleasent, but its the best way. good luck everyone, im off to live again!!!
- Date:
- June 06, 2002
StoryI may be the oldest person (on this website) to have had surgery for a Pilonidal Cyst. I am 57.
When I was 12 (1957) I fell out of a moving car and landed on my tailbone. It was fractured or cracked and it was very painful for months.
When I was 21 (1966) I had my first baby in Waterloo, Iowa. I had gained a great deal of weight and my baby boy weighed 9 pounds 4 ounces. His birth took 24 painful hours. A month after his birth I tried to do sit-ups. I had developed that painful lump at my coccyx area.
I went to a doctor who thought the accident at 12 and the difficult birth of my baby contributed to the problem. He said he could lance the cyst but that it would be very painful and would not eliminate the cyst. He said I would face having repeated lancings in the future. He explained the surgical procedure and recommended it. I took that advice and it turned out to be 100% correct. I immediately went to the hospital for surgery. My mom came to help at home and my recovery went perfectly and soon I was able to take care of my baby. That was 36 years ago and I have NEVER had any pain or problems.
Each time I go to a new doctor they make me fill out forms stating what surgeries I've had in the past. If it weren't for this, I would never give that operation another thought. But I MARVEL over, and am so thankful for, the skill of that surgeon whose name I don't even know. If there can be a perfect success story in a town such as Waterloo, Iowa back in 1966 - Surely there is hope and promise of full recovery and a pain free life for everyone who suffers "Jeep Seat!"
- Date:
- June 05, 2002
StoryHello there! I was going to post before my surgery, but my computer was broken. Well, I am a 21 year old male (prime age as i understand it =) and I have had a pilonidal cyst for about 7 or 8 months. I had the surgery to remove it yesterday. I was in the hospital for 12 hours, but that was only because the hospital kepts rescheduling me. I opted for the spinal anesthesia which is very similar to an epidural. Thankfully, they gave me a shot of lidocaine before they gave me the spinal. Right after i went numb, they game me a shot of morphine in my iv and i passed out. When i woke up about 3 hours later, the surgery was done and i felt nothing. Turns out my cyst was about the size of a beer can!!! somehow they managed to use the primary closure surgery. It is now almost exactly 24 hours after i left the hospital and i have no pain except my back where they inserted the needle. My rear doesnt hurt unless i sit on it. The most painful part of the surgery was when they pulled the electrodes off my chest right before i left. I still have a full bottle of vicodin that i dont need... All in all, i
am very happy... we'll see what happens from here on out.
Cheers!!
Ben
- Date:
- June 05, 2002
StoryI'm an 18 year old female and have been dealing with a Pilonidal Cyst for about a year or so (mine wasn't that bad, they said it was small and the drainage wasn't much didn't even have to bandage it but it was enough to be annoying), now being a sophmore in college I decided there was no time like the present to get it taken care of.
First of all, I just wanted to say that this site helped me a lot. I had no idea what was going on until I did a search on the internet and found this site. It covers all the bases and goes over every aspect thoroughly. I have to say I am kind of shocked at some of the horror stories on here. I myself am doing very well (knock on wood), it is only a month after my surgery and all is going good. I had the closed procedure done, which I am very happy about, and thus far no infection. My doc told me at this point, I shouldn't even think about it as infection usually occurs in the first week. I'm not even going to be able to see my scar.
The surgery went much better than I anticipated, I was at the hospital for about 4-5 hours and was out cold for probably 2 of it. I opted for the General Anestisia which I highly recommend. The thought of someone working down there on me while I was still awake didn't settle well with me. I went home with only minor discomfort and only took the pain medication for 3 days. For those of you who are planning to have this procedure done, take at least two weeks off. The first week is pretty rough, not so much painful just uncomfortable. The second week is much better but in my experience I couldn't have worked. I couldn't sit for 12 days and slowly worked my way into it. And don't even think about going back until you get your stitches out, that was my big problem they pulled when I tried to sit. And getting the stitches out is not biggie, it only takes 2 minutes. As far as cleaning it went, I had my mom help me. She also had this procedure done at my age. I showered and cleaned it gently with dial antibacterial soap, when I got out my mom checked it for any hair that may have gotten caught in it during my shower. She put peroxide on it and
neosporin. We also bought antibacterial wipies from a local drug store, like the little squares you get in a resteraunt to wipe your hands off.
So not all experiences at having these removed are bad, I have to admit this site did freak me out, as much as it calmed me to know what it was and how it could be treated. I had all these idea's in my head of how bad it was going to be, none of which was true. 4 weeks and I'm still uncomfortable at times but am doing very well. Not back to normal obviously, if you read the site you know it can take over a year to fully heal. I just wanted to add another good story to the board to calm some of you who are freaked out about reading the bad ones. To anyone who is debating whether or not to have the procedure done, DO IT!! Just knowing I don't have to deal with that anymore is such a relief, its not that bad, and good luck!
Anonymous
- Date:
- June 03, 2002
Story
Thank you for this wonderful site. I was first diagnosed in early May. But my case was different because I
didn't know what I had. You see it never bothered me and all of a sudden I began to notice I was bleeding and draining a horribly smelling fluid from my rear end. After some decision making I went to the hospital and was diagnosed and on May 24 I was operated. I feel a lot better now and thanks to your site I know how to take care of myself. I
wasn't aware of the long healing process. Thanks a lot.
Armando Javier Soto
Puerto Rico
- Date:
- June 02, 2002
StoryHi..All theses stories I am hearing are making me realize more and more that this is something I am going to have to live with for the rest of my life. I am 22 years old and I had my first surgery December 21st 2001 in my surgeon's office. He used local
anesthesia and I was out of his clinic within minutes. It was very painful but I would've done anything to be relieved from the previous pain. Two weeks went by with the gauze packing twice a day and I was at work still though cleaning the area everyday very carefully, also going to my surgeon every month from then on. Now 6 months has gone by and the acute discomfort on my tailbone is back. I am back on antibiotics and the pain is just getting worse. I have to see my surgeon first thing tomorrow morning but I am so scared to know that I would be cut open again to drain the cyst. I know I've been told over and over again that there is nothing that can be done which would help this cyst from returning, but how can one live with this, missing so many days at work, how do you explain this rationale to yourself, there must be a way out. As upset and depressed I have been getting, I don't want to give up and accept the fact that this is how my life is going to be from here on. Can someone please reassure me that something has worked from having this pilondial cyst reoccur.
thanks,
upset and depressed
- Date:
- June 01, 2002
StoryTo the person who posted just below me--you had the cyst lanced in the doctor's office---awful stench, your mother had to leave the room---yes, you!
I want to let you know that you obviously had the thing lanced, not fully excised. The cyst is still there--I don't think family docs totally excise pilonidal cysts in their offices, even though an 'old' family doc of mine 'supposedly' did in his office, not knowing that it WAS a pilonidal cyst--not a dermoid,
like he told me to my face. At any rate, I, too hope that the thing
doesn't rear its ugly head. You may be looking at the surgical route
that most of us fellow sufferers have taken. Take care!!
- Date:
- June 01, 2002
StoryP.S. (From
16 F below) This is a great informative site, I had no clue about
this disease and now I feel like an expert on it. I am glad I have
some people to tell my story who have been through the same things
as me!
sami54
- Date:
- June 01, 2002
StoryI am a sixteen year old female. I have had the cyst on my rear for at least a year, and I never really thought that much of it. Every once in a while when I sat down I felt some pain, but I never imagined it was anything serious. Well within the last week, I was sitting in the movies watching Spiderman and I suddenly felt dizzy, cold, my body ached, and I could not walk without feeling like I was going to pass out. I had to leave the movie, I went straight home and got under the covers and shivered, even though it was 85 degrees outside. The next day I woke up and what I oh so cleverly deemed "that thing on my butt" was aching like you-know-what. I walked around hunched over because standing up straight brought about far too much pain. I waddled around and tried fruitlessly to find a comfortable position on the couch. I found soaking in a hot tub made it feel better but I just found out after the fact that that probably made it worse. That night in bed the pain was so excruciating and annoying that I cried all night praying for a wink of sleep. Finally, after two days of agonizing pain, my mother got tired of me moping around and asked me what was wrong. I broke down crying and said "THAT THING ON MY BUTT!!!" Well, being a sixteen year old girl I am slightly self conscious about my butt, so I wasn't to keen on the idea of having 30 medical staffers staring at my big white rear, hence the reason I kept my pain a secret from my mother. I broke down and showed "that thing" to my mother, and she goes "OH MY GOD", not only because it was GARGANTUAN but because she had had one herself when she was my age. She called the doctor and we went ASAP. I was still apprehensive about dropping my drawers, and I had a million questions for my mother like "did it hurt when you got it lanced?" or "Did the doctor laugh at your butt?" But overall I was relieved that the pain would be over soon. Little did I know the procedure itself was only 100 TIMES MORE PAIN THAN "THAT THING" ever thought of being. It took a solid hour of anesthesia and squeezing to get that sucker drained. The stench was unbelievable, so bad in fact my mother had to leave the room. But when I got off that table, I could walk upright without wanting to punch a hole in the wall. When I got home my pants and underwear had big ol' blood stains on them, but it was a small price to pay. The pain afterwards has been minimal, though it has gotten slightly worse with time. It was worth it!! I have yet to get my packing removed, and it still hasn't quit bleeding after 2 days. The first night I had to put a feminine pad around the butt part of my panties incase I leaked during the night. I feel sorry for my mom because she gets the privilege of changing my bandage every few hours and looking at my lovely derriere. I pray to GOD that I don't get another one. If I do, I will
definitely demand to be under general anesthesia!!
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