sex after surgery

how long did it took time to have sex first time after surgery?

  • 1 week

    Votes: 1 16.7%
  • 2 weeks

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 3 weeks

    Votes: 1 16.7%
  • 1 month

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 2-3 months

    Votes: 1 16.7%
  • over three months

    Votes: 3 50.0%

  • Total voters
    6

ellysparkles

Very Helpful
I had the CL and a small portion at the bottom opened up. I waited until it was completely healed over. So it was 3-4 weeks after surgery.
 
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Clumsy

New Member
Can more people give feedback on this? :) I'm going to see my long distance boyfriend ~3 weeks after. It seems like there are mixed messages regarding whether sex will be no big deal, or probably not a good idea. I know everyone is different. I'm 23 and in good shape and my PD isn't particularly severe (don't get me wrong, it's a total b**** as they all are, but I guess not like a lot of the horror stories on here)
 

ellysparkles

Very Helpful
Clumsy, what type of surgery did you have? I think it's a little bit different with open wound excision.
 

Clumsy

New Member
I haven't had surgery yet, but it'll be cleft lift 2nd week in April and then I'm wondering how soon after that I'd be likely to be able to have sex!
 

ellysparkles

Very Helpful
I wouldn't rush it. You can do other things than PIV. I can tell you that the first week and most of the following week sex was the furthest from my mind. I wasn't in pain the second week but def. sore. You can always try, and if it hurts, stop.
 

Clumsy

New Member
I'll do that, ellysparkles. I definitely wasn't counting on the first two weeks, but was hoping after that I could at least take a shot at being on top... we'll see.
 

Clumsy

New Member
Better know we're down for the count for a few weeks now and be done w it, than to be down for the count with NO WARNING every few months for the foreseeable future!
 
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