Surgeon in Brooklyn,NY

Hello my name is Jemica and I'm 26 years old.. I've recently experienced my first flare up and have had it drained twice. I've been referred to a surgeon who is based out of kingbrook medical center but he scares the life out of me. He was very rough with me and would've removed my packing without warning or numbing if I hadn't stopped him. I do want the surgery but I want to feel comfortable with the physician before allowing them to cut me. Are there any suggestions for surgeons in the Brooklyn area? Please let me know.. My surgery is scheduled for Monday but I have no good feelings about the surgery or the doctor.. Please help