Went back to the doctors today. He said I'm healed and have to go back to see him in a month. He also said under no circumstances am I allowed to horseback ride (although I don't). He also said nothing strenuous for 3 more weeks. He put pressure on the area where I thought there was fluid.but it didn't hurt so he said.not to worry about it because.when he performed the cleft lift/flap lift surgery he sewed it passed the.mid line a little. So other than that I'm good.
One thing you could do, if you want to -- you could start a thread here detailing what you went through. You'd be surprised how many people you could help! There's a remarkable number of people just like you, but who haven't had the surgery yet! You could be a big help to someone out there!
Anyway, I'm so happy you are done with it now, and that you are all better now!